What Is Moving Forward Essay

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Moving forward in life makes me to leave my family of orientation and extended family and form a family of procreation and a nuclear family. Leaving my extended family was difficult for me, because of the relationship we have toward each other during those years we had live together. According to the sociologist Judy Root Aulette (1994), “family we choose” include blood ties and legal ties, but they also include fictive kin- persons who are not actually related by blood but who are accepted as family members. The statement made by sociologist Judy Root Aulette reminded me of my cousin that lived with my family from when she was five years old. My cousin got use to the family that she does not want to go back to her parent, because she enjoyed staying with my family. My family have these commitment and care that I really miss a lot, so moving forward really causes me of leaving my lovely family. …show more content…

My siblings and I grew up in a very low income neighborhood, but my mother makes it her duty to make my siblings and I have a good education and have a conducive environment by working two jobs. So that growing up, we will move from being a working class to being middle class and one day, be at the upper class. My mother did her best so that my siblings and I can have social mobility by give us a good education, so that we can move from intergenerational mobility to intragenerational mobility like Ben Carson the neurosurgeon. Moving forward in life, my mother teaches my siblings and I on the reason why she is investing so much into our education. She said it was because she has tasted poverty before and she can testify that poverty can cause early death. According to Ropers, “being poor not only means economic insecurity, it also wreaks havoc on one’s mental and physical health” (Ropers,

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