What Does Tata Represent In Like Water For Chocolate

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Mirrors are important in books because by seeing yourself in the media, you can see how people like you live life and deal with hardships. Mirrors are important in life by helping you reflect on your life by seeing other people and things like you. Laura Esquivel's classic novel, Like Water for Chocolate, is about the struggles of a Mexican family and the various love stories and afflictions they go through. Among all the characters in the novel, the one I see myself in most is Tita De LaGarza. She is the main character in LWFC and she overcomes her issues with her abusive mother and her love affair with someone she was forbidden to date. Examining Tita’s character, I saw characteristics of self-determination that mirror much of my experience …show more content…

I hate you, I’ve always hated you!” (1999). The phrases “know” and “perfect right” describe the change in confidence in Tita throughout the novel by showing how she knows what's right for her. She declares to Mama Elena that she has a right to do what she wants because she is finally free from her mothers hold. Mama Elena, the dictator in Tita’s life, is telling Tita that what she is doing is humiliating and shameful. She knows what’s right and what's wrong without someone telling her. This represents the changing self-determination Tita is feeling throughout the novel. By describing Tita’s advancing confidence, Esquival shows how self determination is hard to obtain, but is necessary to get through predicaments, for example, Tita and Mama Elena’s constant arguing. Like Tita, my self-determination has changed throughout my life. When I was in elementary school, I had friends who consistently ignored another girl who wanted to talk to us. In fourth grade, I attended Ravinia Elementary school with my friend group of 3 girls and I. A new girl, Bella, had moved to the school. And since it was a small class, our friend group seemed like the most friendly one to talk …show more content…

My friends and I weren’t angry with her, but Erin was. Erin unfollowed Lainey on Instagram and Snapchat and said that she was going to confront her on Monday. I did not want to lose Lainey as a friend, so I told Erin that having other friends is an acceptable thing. She was displeased for a while, but thanks to me, she forgave Lainey. As I went into high school, I learned that being shy won’t get you far. I learned that in a friend group with teenage girls, you have to stand up for yourself so that you aren’t avoided by your friends for a week. Like Tita, there were many situations with a close person in our lives that we had to finally deal with. We realized that we had self-determination when we fought for something we believed to be true. Tita was fighting for her relationship with Pedro, and I was fighting for my friend Lainey and her actions. Both my examples have taught me that self-determination gets you through difficult situations. In conclusion, Tita and I share the trait of being self-determined. We both experienced a changing confidence throughout our lives that benefited our relationships with others by advocating for

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