Watching A Friend Die In Iraq Cort Reed

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Have you ever had someone close to you die? Have you ever been faced with the trauma watching someone you love die? In both of my sources I learned of how men lost their friends while on duty. I learned of the pain and distress it caused them. In this essay I will compare the stories of both men. In Of Men and War(source 1) there was man who was traumatized with watching his friend die. He had to deal with the misery of his friend dying in his arms just milliseconds after speaking with him. In Watching a Friend Die in Iraq Cort Reed was faced with the exact same trauma. He watched his friend fall to his death in just seconds. Both men could do nothing about the situation. They both had to deal with the thoughts of ‘why am I still here?’ or

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