'Two Ways To Belong In America'

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Everyone has a way to view the world around him or her, either through experience or religion. Nevertheless, all of those ways of viewing the world all ties down to culture, where it defines a person’s background, personality, and history/experiences. With each person’s having their own unique culture that only belongs to them, and no one else. Such as: a relationship between a mother and her daughter, the comparison between two sisters, and how one is considered as a human being while the other is marked as an unknown species.
There is a saying of “Like father, like son,” which might go as well as for the female side. But it not necessarily true; as for in the short story of “Two Kinds” by Amy Tang, the mother tries to show her daughter, Jing-mei, that she could be anything she wants in America. As she also …show more content…

In “Two Ways to Belong in America”, a personal essay by Bharati Mukherjee, explains how one sister is considered as a citizen while the other is considered as an immigrant. With each having a specific title given by the government. As the new American immigration laws were put in use, Mira, her older sister, complained that “’I’ve obeyed all the rules, I’ve paid my taxes, I love my work, I love my students, I love the friends I’ve made. How dare America now change its rules in midstream (71)?’” Arguing how America has done something to make her feel inferior. On the contrast, Bharati decides to become a US citizen and given up on some of her culture. Which she describes it as, “America spoke to me – I married it – I embraced the demotion form expatriate aristocrat to immigrant nobody, surrendering those thousands of years of ‘pure culture,’ the saris, the delightfully accented English. She retained the all. Which of us is the freak (71)?” Wondering if it was the right choice to choose in the beginning, or that it was a natural thing for this to happen to

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