Traditional Wedding Ceremony Essay

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On this very day of the traditional marriage ceremony, the groom must have been informed on what he is wearing no matter your religion, culture, ethnic group, tribe and your race on that very day of the traditional marriage ceremony the groom will be dress as an Urhobo man. The bride's family would welcome the groom and his family with drinks (alcohol), kola nuts, alligator pepper and even with money would be presented to their in-laws.

After the initial customary entertainment and rite and proper introductions are done, the visitors are asked of the purpose of their visit through the bride's family spokesman, the visitors will tell them that they have come to marry one of their daughters for their son, who may even not be around.

After the bride's family accepts the explanation, another traditional …show more content…

We are having all these details brought to you because a typical Urhobo wedding is often misrepresented by those who are not properly acquainted with the necessary procedures of their tradition.

Because of this too and to show that they are not sleeping over the seriousness over the matters involving their marriage traditions, the people of Urhobo had even embarked on a huge project to have it put on the world's view for proper documentation and for record keeping purposes

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