To All The Boys I Ve Loved Before By Jenny Han

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"Never say no when you want to say yes" - Jenny Han. This quote emphasizes the importance of following your heart, even when the odds seem against you. Sometimes, taking a risk is worth it. In the novel "To All The Boys I've Loved Before" by Jenny Han, it is shown that prioritizing oneself can be beneficial as it helps resolve personal feelings, promotes personal growth, and allows for reflection on overlooked matters Prioritizing ourselves is beneficial when it comes to resolving our feelings and reflecting on them. In the novel, when Margot decides to attend college in Scotland, far away from where they live and breaks up with Josh, her sister Lara Jean initially feels doubtful about their decision. “So now it’s the last days of summer and …show more content…

However, upon further contemplation, Lara Jean realizes that her sister must have thought about it thoroughly and that she should focus on the positive aspects of the situation, such as having more time to spend with her sisters. This illustrates that prioritizing ourselves can help us clarify our doubts regarding our emotions and feelings. The act of prioritizing oneself is essential for personal growth and development. In the novel, there comes a point where Margot stumbles upon Lara Jean's love letters and discovers her crush on Josh. This discovery further leads Margot to distance herself from Lara Jean, and they stop talking to each other (Han 345). However, when they finally reconcile, the topic of Josh comes up in conversation as Lara Jean mentions him. She reveals that she had liked him first, and had harbored feelings for him all summer before ninth grade. She even thought he liked her back, but was left heartbroken when Margot announced she was dating him. Lara Jean had to swallow her feelings and write him a farewell letter to accept the situation. This aspect of the novel highlights the complexity of teenage friendships and the impact of miscommunication on

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