Theme Of Grief In A Doll's House

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Love in literature can be deceiving; severely blinding even the best of moral judgement. Memories are slurred into massive orgies of embellished happiness. Excruciating pain is condoned through the idea that tolerance is a sacrifice for “love”, whilst creating obstinate aspirations that prove to be delusional. There is this existing normality of grief to be associated with the act of “altruism” or “compassion”, however, when the vision of this so-called “love” is purloined, the only consolation left is a state of torment. Written moralities are forced to endure a slur of emotions that would utterly destroy the soul of a person. However, these stages of Grief; denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance, are essential to finding …show more content…

This is evident in A Doll’s House, where author Henrik Ibsen manipulates the process of Grief in the life of seemingly vacuous Nora Helmer, an individual who endures severe calamities in order to attain …show more content…

This depressive state Nora articulates is evident when she begins to admit that she’s “been fighting a hard battle”(107), and that Torvald needs to “let [her] go”(104). The realization of the hardships is understandably upsetting, that perhaps Nora never truly knew what her greatest loss was, until she recognized that it was herself; not only her marriage, but her entire life. Nora was always told what to do in life by her father, by her husband, even by her nanny. She never got a say in her own life, even debating whether she believed in God or not due to the fact that it seems like blind faith in an idea forced upon her, just like everything else in her life. Although depression is a difficult emotion to cope with, it is sadly necessary in order to simply recognize the luminosity of the future. If Nora were to continue the deceptive life of artificial happiness, she would have never realized the lack of individualism that she

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