Theme Of Family In The Giver

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Is your family important to you? Is family important? Is it important to you? In chapter 16, Jonas was experiencing his first memory of love and family. After the memory, Jonas loved the feeling of how happy everyone in the family was during the memory. He learned about grandparents, and family love, and he wanted something like that. He wanted a real family. "He was in a room filled with people, and it was warm with fire-light glowing on a hearth. He could see through a window that outside it was night, and snowing. There were colored lights: red, green, and yellow, twinkling from a tree which was, oddly, inside the room. On a table, lighted candles stood in a polished golden holder and cast a soft, flickering glow. He could smell things cooking, and he heard laughter." Furthermore, Lowry is approaching the memory of family as very good and warm, it makes Jonas want a real family. …show more content…

He wants this because in the community, they have family units and the word love is considered a precision of language. In chapter 16, page 129, Jonas had asked his parents "Do you love me?" they responded making love sound like a bad or inappropriate word. When Jonas had asked his parents that question, it was soon after he had experienced the memory of love and family. In addition, this experience allowed Jonas to leave the community to search for love and family, that much easier, and so the community could experience all his memories. In chapter 19, Jonas has now made his plan to escape the community because he had just watched his father release one twin and keep the other. The twins were family but now one is dead. In addition to Jonas wanting love and wanting to search for it he had just witnessed his father, someone he had love for, kill/release a newborn. Jonas didn't have family love or love from anybody so that also influenced him to

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