The Things They Carried Regret Analysis

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Regret is something that is apparent in everyone’s life whether they want it to be or not. The Things They Carried, by Tim O’Brien, is a collection of short stories about his time in the Vietnam War. A common theme throughout all the stories is regret. Although I have never been drafted to war I can very closely relate to the feeling of regret. Regret is not a good feeling. It is something that follows you around for a long time. It hangs over your head like a gray cloud. In one of Tim’s stories On The Rainy River he says “Still, it’s a hard story to tell” (37). This draws you to believe that Tim found it very difficult to tell others about his time in the war, he did some things he was not proud of and he found it best he keep quiet. The decision my parents made eleven years ago to get divorced, was something that will have an affect on me for the rest of my life. I found it very difficult to talk about the divorce, …show more content…

“They carried shameful memories” (20). In the first short story, The Things They Carried, Tim discusses some of the memories he is left with from the Vietnam war, and how he does not agree with war, therefore these memories bring shame to him. The divorce is a shameful memory to me, hearing my parents argue back and forth for so long and say such hateful things is something I won’t ever be able to erase from my head. It’s something I will always carry around with me, and it sparks up at the most inconvenient times. These memories have gotten in the way and ruined relationships for me. Not only will I carry this around though, I also believe the divorce is a shameful memory to my parents. Not necessarily that they made the wrong decision, but that they allowed the fighting to be so close to my siblings and I. They can see how it affects us, especially now as we are starting to get into relationships they can see our trust

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