The Pros And Cons Of Divorce

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Anyone would hate to hear the words, “We are getting divorced.” Many children today in America, grow up alternating weekends, or only spending vacation with one parent, and sadly it isn’t the same. Divorce rates are increasing each year, and currently it is at a whopping 50% in the United States. Families are torn apart, or some not even formed, due to marital issues. It is a sad truth and can lead to different views on how people view marriage. In the past, marriage was viewed as important. Many times, to Christians a sacrament of the church. Now many people don’t think about it and do not fear the split of a relationship. Women tend to think more about this option than men when things are not working out. In the recent years, divorces are becoming easier to obtain, as our views are definitely changing into those of modern times. Christianity, and even the government are split on the idea of granting divorce, but is still allowed because of domestic violence which is sadly common, infidelity, and simply not being happy anymore. Having children, and maintaining a family also adds to the stress, …show more content…

Women, children, and men are beat by someone in their family. Abuse is why 29% of the population divorce. The aggressor, hurts the victim(s) and takes it really far, and seriously injured, or in some cases kill them because they are angry or intoxicated. Mothers, or fathers divorce their spouse due to abuse to their children or them. In the United States, this happens more often than not and is a problem, this can include sexual and physical abuse. Many men are guilty of being the aggressors, and can harm and create fear in the women and children. If a person feels like they are unsafe and cannot tolerate what is going on, it is reasonable to ask for a divorce. In these cases, there is a lot of psychological damage that has been done, but there is help for the victims, and can help them surpass those difficult

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