Dismantling Society's Unrealistic Beauty Standards for Women

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Girls, Aren’t you sick of living under society's idea of perfection? Nowadays, high and unrealistic standards are set for all women to live up to. Women are socially influenced to meet the criteria of the perfect outer image. People surrounding us, the media, and stereotypes of the ‘perfect girl’ are telling us we must have flawless bodies, confident and happy personalities, and an innocent outlook on life.

All over social media we see beautiful girls living out the perfect life. These girls all have big boobs, a big bum, nice legs, a small waist and clear skin. But is this their reality? As I scroll through Instagram I see post after post of skinny girls posing, looking effortless, but in fact they have just chosen the right lighting, gotten …show more content…

On a photo she once said was “candid” O’Neill wrote “…Stomach sucked in, strategic pose, pushed up boobs,” she says “I just want younger girls to know this isn’t candid life, or cool or inspirational. Its contrived perfection made to get attention.” This is exactly what girls are chasing after; a false image of perfection. There is really no “ideal girl”, having a good body, amazing hair and good clothes will never make you happy. We as humans are capable of so much more than having the flawless outer image. O’Neill has experienced first-hand the glorified “perfect life” and it is far from happy and fulfilling. The social issues research centre (SIRC) has found that “The current media ideal for women is achievable by less than 5% of the female population – and that's just in terms of weight and size. If you want the ideal shape, face etc., it's probably more like 1%.” How do we expect ourselves to fit into this unrealistic expectation? I mean, guys, it has been proven that we actually can’t fit into what everyone thinks is perfect. Unless you are one of the lucky few in the 5%, we need to start realising there is more than outer beauty and

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