The Nurtured Heart Approach: A Case Study

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I have seen this type of behavior in children in various public places. In the case of Monique (p.2) whose behavior resembles a daughter of friends of mind. The only difference is that the circumstances surrounding my friends daughter was a little different. Instead of my friends being divorced, she and her husband had adopted their daughter. She was a precious and sweet little girl, until she hit her teens. She than became very defiant and disrespectful. My friends did what the parents did in this chapter. Therefore they experienced the same response from their daughter as the parents in the book. Just as the parents in the book, my friends could have benefited from “The Nurtured Heart Approach” (p.5) as well. When I think back to the time when I was raising my children, especially the oldest one, I did some of the same things. …show more content…

And in return, he did those things again and again and again. Like the parents in this chapter, they probably thought if you take away something that your child really wanted, they would behave. I know that was my thought. I can see where giving positive affirmation is a lot better than responding to the negative. Just think about it, as an adult, you will respond a lot better to someone who is nice to you, who is speaking to you in a positive manner versus someone who is being mean to you and who is speaking to you in a negative manner. I believe if a lot more parents would take this approach, more children would be better behaved. I also believe with this approach parents would interact more with their children. The parents would enjoy the children more because the home would be more peaceful. I’m sure that kids will not act perfect all the time and on

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