The Negative Effects Of My Life

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There are many things in this world that can happen that cause people to change. It could be something big or it could be something small. Either way everyone has something different they are battling. For me, it would have to be my mother’s death. This has had both a negative and positive effect on my life. I bet you are wondering how something like that could be positive, right? Well, let me start my story.
On September 24, 2013, I was in the process of getting ready for school when I heard a knock on our front door. It was the police when I first answered the door, I didn’t think anything about it. The police asked me to call my grandmother so of course I did so. The police proceeded to tell her to come pick my brother and I up. Shortly after my grandma arrived, I had learned about my mother’s death. At the time it was a big change for me; I had just started high school and thought how in the world am I going to make it without her? It changed every aspect of my life and even how I saw life. At first, things were a little rough. I had to deal with the constant …show more content…

I had to move in with my grandmother because my parents are divorced. My grandmother did everything she could to help me. She provided me with everything I needed and more. My grandma never gave up on me, when I wanted to give up my grandmother reminded me why I should keep going. Eventually my father decided to come back into my life. I was a little adamant about this because I didn’t want him to just forget about me again. I agreed to see him and it was the best decision I have ever made. He proved me wrong and he still continues to be in my life. I also had found a new group of friends because of this. My friends are possibly one of the best things that have ever happened to me. They showed me how to be happy even when I felt like I could not be happy. They got my mind off of things and they helped me overcome a huge obstacle in my

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