The Influence Of Love In The LGBT Community

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At least once in their life a person will cross the path of love. They will find someone they feel deeply affectionate for and in some cases the feeling will remain throughout the rest of their life. Love has always overlapped the lives of many, creating both happiness and sadness. As time has moved forward love has also moved forward and is constantly being shaped by four key factors. These four factors are race, identity, gender, and religion. Similarly to these factors shaping love they also shape and inform the community. The reason for this is because love and the community coexist. Love can be used to influence the community and as love is shaped and informed by race, identity, gender, and religion so is the community. William Jelani …show more content…

How gender shapes the love can be seen from two different points of views, both exemplified in “The Power of Marriage”. The first is the aforementioned infidel identity of men. The second however takes a complete turn as it is the factor of how gender shapes love in regarding to the LGBT community. In many states gays are not allowed to marry and ultimately they are socially unacceptable. Due to their identity of being gay their love is shaped with complications that derives from the way most communities act towards the idea of same gender love. Due to their same gender love, some communities are shaped to be unaccepting whereas others are shaped to be accepting and supportive. The unaccepting communities will usually show hate which will ultimately affect the way the lovers feel as well. Another way how same gender love influences and shapes the community is when other gay couples gain the hope and confidence they need from the love of other supporting couples. Essentially, the love in a community regarding gender will either influence the community to be spiteful or the love will spread and create a type of haven for other same gender lovers in the

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