The Importance Of Trust In Relationships

Everyone has uncertainly about who to trust, when to trust, and how much to trust. On a daily base we choose whom we trust and whom we don't trust or how much we trust that person. At some points we trust more than we normally would. That's a good thing according to psychologist. “A total lack of mistrust would indicate a serious psychological problem. Judgments about when and whom to trust help keep us safe and alive!”("Find the Right Therapist." Trust Issues: How to Get Over Them in Relationships, Marriage, and Life. N.p., n.d. Web. 23 May 2014). Being mistrusted is a response to being abandoned or betrayed by someone you cared about. “Trust is the foundation for intimate, secure and successful relationships. It must be earned and maintained. But what happens when your trust is violated?”("How to Rebuild Trust After Betrayal." Women's Health Issues. N.p., n.d. Web. 23 May 2014.) Beginning of a relationship seems always to be a perfect and fairytale time. You have trust in each other and everything is amazing, but what will happen if one of them messes up? Do you forgive and forget, or do you start developing trust issues? Many relationships start having problems because they start loosing trust in each other and this leads to break ups or even worse divorce. Trust should be earned, but if you loose someone’s trust it is very difficult to earn it back.

Trust starts developing when you are an infant. “Infants learn to depend on their caregivers as soon as they are born. When caregivers provide nurturance to a child, this child will learn that he or she can believe in others.”("What Is Trust in a Relationship?" LoveToKnow. N.p., n.d. Web. 23 May 2014.) Neglected infants will usually feel insure and neglec...

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...and we connected very quickly. We started to date, and it is a completely different feeling because we trust each other. Without trust I don't think I would be able to handle him moving to California this weekend to chase after his goal. Trust is very important part of a relationship; if you don't have trust you can’t be with that person and love him.

Having someone to trust in your life is truly an incredible feeling. You can tell that person anything that is going on in your life. You can share the deepest secrets that you have and you know you can trust that person to the keep it a secret. Having trust in someone will make you have a good relationship with her or him because you cant talk to each other about anything, give advice, share beautiful memories and so much more. If you have trust in your loved one no long distance can break you apart.