The Importance Of Selflessness

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All humans are selfish on instinct, the will to survive being an innate trait that all humans are born with, but most people don’t give this selfishness a second thought despite having the brain power to do so. It has become so natural for people to act based on their own personal interests that someone who observes more than acts can see the consequences that come with that way of living. In my life I observe far too many people around me making selfish decisions to only benefit themselves. I can willingly admit I’m not the pinnacle of selflessness either, since selfishness is a survival mechanism that is deeply ingrained in the human DNA, but I spare people second thoughts and glances. I instill deep emotional values and strive towards being a selfless being in my daily life.
This value and goal of selflessness has impacted my relationships with other people and myself. Shortly after my father died, I developed a subconscious bond to an unselfish ideal. It has been …show more content…

Being proud of myself for helping others and receiving their approval is not selfish. I do not help in order to cause other people to hold pride in me, I help because I’ve been asked. I do not commit selfless acts because of the benefits I will receive if people see me as such. Logic and an unwillingness to believe gives others an excuse to put selflessness under a scrutiny that I do not wish to be under, so I let the general public see me as a teenager who is as selfish as the rest. Unselfish acts are put under scrutiny because humans do not believe that overriding something so basic can be possible and because being unselfish seems like a legend to them. This is a challenge to my value because it is so difficult to be selfless when others tell you that it isn’t possible. Part of committing to being selfless is having the hope that it is possible, but I haven’t lost my hope

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