The Great Gatsby And Daisy Relationship Essay

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While the intense relationship portrayed between Gatsby and Daisy is seemingly offered as a counterpoint to the other emotionally distant and twisted relationships in the novel, Gatsby and Daisy’s romance, in actuality, shares many striking similarities. Although Gatsby believes that his ultimate goal is the possession of Daisy— a belief that many readers, as well as Nick, Jordan, Tom, and Daisy, seem to share—Daisy is merely the key to his goal rather than the goal itself. Gatsby had set his sights on the attainment of wealth and social status long before he knew Daisy. Whatever psychological traumas Gatsby suffered in his youth, they were sufficient to make him completely reject his emotional relationship with his parents: “his imagination …show more content…

And his claim that his invented family “all died and [he] came into a good deal of money” (Fitzgerald 70) becomes, in this context, a metaphor for his desire to psychologically kill the parents whose wounding influence still inhabits his own psyche and, paradoxically, receive from those parents the psychological nourishment- the “money”- they would never give him. Through Daisy, he could imagine what it would feel like to be part of her world, to be, as he felt she was, “gleaming like silver, safe and proud above the hot struggles of the poor” (Fitzgerald 157), the struggles he experienced as a youth, which he cannot help but associate with the psychological pain of that period of his life. Daisy is, for him, not a woman but an emblem of the emotional insulation he unconsciously desires: emotional insulation from himself, from James Gatz and the past by which he came from. As witnessed in the case of Tom and Daisy, the best way to achieve emotional insulation from oneself is to avoid intimacy with

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