The Future Of Adolescence Is A Stage Of Development

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The definition of the word adolescence, the period of life when a child develops into an adult, a stage of development (as of a language or culture) prior to maturity. The definition of a crisis is a difficult or dangerous situation that needs serious attention. I always believed that people are products of their environment. Your environment can play a role in a child. Based on the theories that I read and my own experiences that I have been through I concluded that that everyone goes through crisis through adolescence which can be positive or negative. Failure to finding your own identity can be very dangerous. It can have long lasting effects that can affect your future.
A crisis that I was going through was when I left the New York City College of Technology, I stopped going to the college because I realize architecture wasn't the ideal professional that I thought would see myself. It was very scary crisis that I was facing because architecture was the career that I wanted to be since I was little. After I realize that architecture wasn’t the career for me. I withdrew from the college. I was identity diffused because I felt lost in life. I had no idea what I wanted to be, I wasn't in school and I wasn't sure I had the commitment to come back to school. I had no future goals. All the life goals that I had envision where crashing down. Since I knew many people knew that I was studying architecture I kept coming across to people asking me how was my progress in school. It made me feel embarrassed to tell them that I dropped out from studying it. I didn't want to look like a failure in society. Since today's society it's usually not well accepted for people not finishing college.
James Marcia identity theory was proba...

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... experience have conflicts like self-doubt, role diffusion, and role confusion; and the adolescent may indulge in self-destructive one-sided preoccupation or activity. The adolescent may continue to be morbidly preoccupied with what others think of them, or may withdraw and no longer care about themselves and others. Similarly to how I felt after dropping out from college I thought what people might think of me.
In conclusion, it’s very important to find your identity during adolescence. Failure to finding your own identity can be very dangerous. It can have long lasting effects that can affect your future. Some people never find their identity which leads to a very hostile and unstable life. Adolescence is crucial period for the formation of the mature ego many things happen in adolescence gender orientation, commitment to education and future career goals.

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