The Experience Of Falling In Love Is A Spiritual Experience

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Falling in love is a mysterious, wonderful, and deeply spiritual experience. It is finding the other half of one’s self and feeling complete for the first time in one’s life. The experience of falling in love has inspired countless stories, plays, and songs. It is the deepest desire of a human to be in love with another person, and to have that love requited. Falling in love creates intense, spiritual feelings between two people. Often, these feelings can be so strong that they consume a person with their intensity. These feelings, as wonderful as they can be, cannot be maintained at that intensity for the duration of a life-long relationship. Although these deep feelings can and should resurface from time to time, being in a constant state of intense love would drain a person over time and prevent that person from finding self-fulfillment, self-satisfaction, and, ultimately, true happiness. Joseph Campbell spoke of the “seizure” that comes in recognizing your soul’s counterpart in another person as a mysterious, electric experience. Campbell speaks of the moment a person falls in love. Falling in love can be a deeply spiritual experience. It is a spiritual recognition of another …show more content…

True happiness is obtained through self satisfaction, self fulfillment, and finding true love. Without all three, a person could never be truly happy. Without an individual knowing that they achieved something great on their own and fulfilled their dreams, they may lack a sense of self-worth. Because constant feelings of intense love cannot be maintained, many couples today are truly happy. Each individual in the relationship has self satisfaction, self fulfillment, and true love because those feelings faded over

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