Social Class and Parenting Styles

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Unequal Childhoods explores the lives of children of different races and social classes in order to support Annette Lareau’s thesis that parenting styles are shaped by a child’s social class, and a child’s life chances will depend on the parenting style with which they are raised. These life chances can be viewed as benefits, which “accrue to middle-class children [and] can be significant, but they are often invisible to them and to others” (Lareau, 2011: 13). Life chances are viewed differently for the working or lower class because their strategies are viewed as “unhelpful or even harmful to children’s life chances” (Lareau, 2011: 13). Lareau’s thesis also includes the idea that children will then recreate their class background due to the life chances that their parenting style allowed them to have. Lareau supports her thesis by focusing on two parenting styles which are dependent on social class and seeing how the children’s daily lives, their interactions with institutions, and their parents’ interactions with institutions vary based on these parenting styles. She looks at the skills a child gains based on either the concerted cultivation or natural growth parenting style by examining one school within a city and one school within the suburbs (Lareau, 2011: 15). A child raised through concerted cultivation, in which parents organize and control their children’s lives, gains a sense of entitlement, and these middle-class children are taught “to question adults and address them as relative equals” (Lareau, 2011: 1-2). Lareau uses examples of how a middle-class child’s daily life is organized and how they use the skills learned from this organization when interacting with institutions. Their sense of entitlement will lead the... ... middle of paper ... ...ch as a recession, may change the accuracy of her thesis. During a recession like the one recently experienced in the United States, parents may be forced to work more to maintain their lifestyle and would have less time to invest in their child’s activities outside of school. A family could still be wealthy enough to be considered middle-class, but due to the increase in time spent working and decrease in time spent transporting children to activities, the children would have to become autonomous like the working and lower-class children. Even if children would be participating in less activities, their interaction and their parents’ interaction with institutions most likely would remain a two-way, highly involved interaction. Works Cited Lareau, A. (2011). Unequal childhoods: class, race, and family life (2nd ed.). Berkely, CA: University of California Press.

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