Sibling Rivalry In Cinderella

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Folktales can be used to share morals or a lesson using symbols, and this is true of the classic “Cinderella” story. Madonna Kolbenschlag, a feminist, writes “A Feminist’s View of ‘Cinderella,’” explaining the Cinderella story in a more sexist view. Bruno Bettel-heim, a distinguished psychologist, centers his article, “‘Cinderella’: A Story of Sibling Rivalry and Oedipal Conflicts” very specifically on the sibling rivalry exhibited in the classic “Cinderella” story. He also writes about the oedipal period of a child’s life. Both authors agree that “Cinderella” is most likely the best-known and best-liked fairy tale. Although, according to Stith Thompson, folktales have been passed form country to country and through different time periods, …show more content…

Bettelheim shares the analogy of the two brothers Cain and Abel from the Bible: Abel was essen-tially a servant to Cain and was later murdered by him. Cinderella was reduced to living by the ashes serving her stepsisters. Not only does Bettelheim share about sibling rival-ry in the “Cinderella” story itself, but he also elaborates on sibling rivalry out of the fic-tional story. The feelings felt in sibling rivalry are not necessarily felt towards the sib-lings, but to the parents as well. Jealousy from attention to the other siblings causes the child to try to feel acceptance form the parent. After feeling how Cinderella did with her vile stepmother and stepsisters, the child ends up believing that she belongs where she is: degraded and a slave to her …show more content…

With her siblings kept in higher regard than her, Cinderella is excluded from achievements in life. Cinderella eventually accepts her place by the hearth: this is the acceptance that a degraded sibling feels. She reverts to a quote of Bruno Bettelheim’s about sibling rivalry. Subject to living in the ashes by the chimney, the child will eventu-ally have a longing to be rescued from her situation.
Bettelheim shares the gender bigotry toward a parent when the child is in the oe-dipal state. When the child feels this dejection, wanting approval from his parents, he may feel the need to rid the parent of the same sex. The child feels worthless because of other siblings being preferred over him. This causes the child to feel as if there is something wrong with him, although he may have done nothing to deserve this treat-ment from his parents. This psychological issue of wanting to get rid of the parent of the same sex eventually causes guilt for the

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