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Gloom and the dread that followed Valarie into the house, which caught Samuel’s attention.
Valarie moved in slow motion, every thing had slowed down.
She fixed herself the best she could and walked into the lounge.
Valarie knew he had called her but she felt the need to enquire of him.
‘Did you call me? ‘I was wondering if you’re okay.’ He turned towards her only to see her grey pale face starring back at him. He moved closer to her, but not enough to touch her. He could see her anxiety and distress. He wanted to get closer still but she stepped back and turned from his peering eyes, asking multiple questions at once. He retreated slightly, enough to reassure her. She did not want him to intrude but she knew she had to release the build up that was taking place.
Valarie could not stop herself from withdrawing, she had done it for so long, that despite her need to talk she found it difficult. She wanted to stop herself, let him hear her, know her fears, but familiar can act as a barrier preventing change. It felt easy to slip into what she knew and was used to, despite the call of desperation beckoning to her.
Times before Samuel would have been very cautious about responding to her signals. But how could he not respond now?
Memories of the time when she took to her bed rushed to his nerve endings, sending sensations all over his body. The fear regrouping in him met the fear clothing Valarie’s face, in fact her whole body. His retreat would be temporarily this time; he slowly walked towards her again, “Valarie let me help you, I need to know that you’re going to be okay”.
Valarie held her hands in her face; she made the mistake of closing her eyes. She was back in the hospital, her cries turned to sobs and sobs tur...
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... at the same time she needed her children.
The family had met and talked about how they could best support her. Initially she did not mind the support however after a while she started refusing help and kept sending people away.
Poor Celia, she had blamed herself for the accident and no one could tell her differently, hard as they tried. She missed Jerry beyond words and caring for the twins was very demanding. It was not long before she turned to the bottle and any medication that she could take to try and ease the pain. She spent longer in bed and could not cope with two crying babies. It was Leah who had got so concerned that she broke into the house when Celia refused to open the door. She was so shocked at what she found; there was no question that she was having a breakdown.
The twins returned to Leah and Pete and Celia returned to the mental hospital.
Later on that day their mom called for some help to come get her and their brother Bobby, when they car came he had to get in a hurst. After all that happened they finally found out what Bobby had.. it was polio what bobby had they knew things would really change after that. So the next day after Ann Fay found out that Bobby had polio she didn't know how she was gonna tell the twins. When Ann Fay told the twins they really didn’t know what polio was so of course Ann Fay had to tell them. The next day Ann Fay had to wake them up get them dressed washed their face and feed them breakfast, she was already toren all up because of what happened to her little brother. Before her daddy left he had gave her some overalls to be the man of the house and help her mom with the kids while he was gone to the war. Ann Fay knew with overalls she was gonna be doing everything now that her little brother has
There were no other people besides the family that knew about what was going on, so there was no opportunity for anyone to step in and help. The family kept the secrets of what was going on and it seemed as though they suffered from Family Systems Theory where “it is the family's reaction to an event, or their ability to cope in an emotionally stable manner (Opipari, 2010, pp. 125) that determines how they function. There was no balance, there was no speaking on their emotions, so this limited any option for intervention coming from the or outside their family.
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Her eyes were heavy, her body weak. As she crawled into the bathroom two feet away, Abby felt her body slowly succumbing to the numbness. All of her pain would be gone in less than 10 minutes, so why would she want to turn back? What about the senior trip Abby had planned with her best friend? What about the chair at the dinner table that would now be vacant? A couple of hours later Abby’s family came home from her little sister’s soccer game. Little did they know what they would find as they approached the top of the stairs. Her little sister, Ali, stood still as she looked down at her feet. There on the cold floor lay her big sister, her role model, and her super hero. Ali was crushed when she saw the pill bottle in her hand and the pale color of her skin. Her mom fell to her knees screaming and crying, wondering where she
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