Shades of Meaning

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"Obsession is a commitment; you have to believe in it, because it soon takes you over." A chilling statement made by Pilar Vilades in a New York Times Magazine article regarding how time consuming an obsession can be. This is exceptionally true in cases of OCD. The human mind is truly one of this world's wonders, and watching how a person with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder behaves will cause one to cherish sanity. However, even those who are considered sane experience their share of obsessive feelings in the more benign form of infatuation. Whichever word is used to describe it, the essence of both words resides in the dominance of one's mind by a single, reoccurring thought.

The Oxford English Dictionary has obsession originally meaning "actuation by the devil or an evil spirit from without" first appearing in 1605, from the Latin obsidere, to beset, occupy. The etymology of obsession shows that it once had to do with malign forces, explaining the reason why today it to used to describe unsatisfactory situations. An obsession has a tendency to play a part of relationships and emotions, namely love. Many upbeat songs voice the not so happy side of obsession. Kylie Minogue's song "Obsession" tells the story of a love gone wrong and how her loved one turned dangerous and "the mind games, driving [her] insane, when [her] life was not [her] own." Another "Obsession" song by Animotion tells the story from the opposite point of view of the individual who is obsessed. "I will have you . . . I need you . . . My fantasy has turned to madness and all my goodness has turned to badness. My need to possess you has consumed my soul. My life is trembling, I have no control." Obsessions usually start with intentions that are pure but, as this song shows, these intentions have become threatening. With this negative aura surrounding the word, it gives it a mysterious quality, making it a perfect name to perk ears up with the mention of the "refreshing oriental woody fragrance" from Calvin Klein. An obsession's downfall is most prevalently seen when the obsession is between two people. An obsession with an object would by far be a safer alternative seeing as how objects are incapable of feeling. Collectors can be described as passionate obsessors.

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