Separation Anxiety

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Separation is what many kids utter or yell when they reach a certain point in their lives. When you were young, you depended on your parents for almost everything. They provided shelter, food, clothing and everything else you needed. You could not have survived without them. Even though you were so close for so long to your parents everyone will reach a point in their life when they will want and need to separate from their parents. Your parents when you were young made most all of your decision in your life. Now you are older and more mature. You have started to separate from your parents. You decide what time you go to bed because you know how much sleep you need. When you go to a store you decide what you want and you buy it because you have your own money. Many kids and their families have been seen to have one thing in common. All of the kids were controlled by their parents. This controlling nature has led to many problems. The kids feel the need to rebel. Some drink, smoke, and become sexually active. Widely studied phenomenon in the primate literature that shares some of the features of generalized anxiety states is the response to social separation. Both human and nonhuman primate infants respond to separation from their mothers (or other primary attachment objects) with an intense response of protest characterized by extreme agitation and general panic (Tuma and Maser 1985, 236) Like all emotions, anxiety is a natural part of the human psychology. Normal anxiety is a prerequisite for an individual’s well functioning. Moreover, it may be understood as the pathological counterpart of normal fear. It is manifest by disturbances of mood, as well as of thinking, behavior, and physiological activity. Anxiety disorders are th...

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...lopment or leading to behavior that is not ordinary for that person. Some adults may even become helpless and totally depend on other people including their own children. Single parents also have to be responsible for inculcating in young minds, good moral values and principles. References Dia, David A. "Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy with a Six-Year-Old Boy with Separation Anxiety Disorder: A Case Study." Health and Social Work 26.2 (2001): 125. Hock, Ellen, and Wilma J. Lutz. "Psychological Meaning of Separation Anxiety in Mothers and Fathers." Journal of Family Psychology 12.1 (1998): 41-55. Stevens, Gwendolyn, and Sheldon Gardner. Separation Anxiety and the Dread of Abandonment in Adult Males. Westport, CT: Praeger Publishers, 1994. A. Hussain Tuma, and Jack Maser, eds. Anxiety and the Anxiety Disorders. Hillsdale, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1985.

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