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Through Waverly’s experiences in “Rules of the Game” by Amy Tan, the reader learns that one should not let one’s success change and affect one’s values and actions. Once, when Waverly is playing a chess tournament, during every move, Waverly will “pause, suck in [her] lips, twirl [her] chosen piece in midair… with a triumphant smile thrown back at [her] opponent for good measure.” (154) Waverly is very bold and confident to “suck in [her] lips” and “twirl [her] chosen piece in midair”. She behaved very rudely despite Waverly’s earlier teachings about chess etiquette from Lau Po. Waverly thinks too highly of herself and believes that since she is a chess champion, the same rules as before do not necessarily apply to her. Soon after Waverly becomes an even more well-known chess player, her parents begin making “many concessions to allow [her] to practice. …show more content…
One time [she] complained the the bedroom [she] shared was so noisy that [she] couldn’t think.
Thereafter, [her] brothers slept in a bed in the living room.” (155) A “concession” is an exception, and Waverly takes all of her new power for granted. Waverly begins to value her chess success over her family’s welfare, and her selfish actions resulted in her brothers sleeping uncomfortably “in a bed in the living room”. In fact, Waverly is so absorbed in her success that even when she “knew it was a mistake to say anything more… [Waverly said] ‘Why do you have to use me to show off? If you want to show off, why don’t you learn to play chess?’” (155). Earlier in the story, Waverly is taught that one should respect the feelings of others above one’s own when “[the boy’s mother] lead him out of the church hall, apologizing… [that he] had such bad manners he couldn’t appreciate such a fine gift” (149). The woman apologizes for “her son who had such bad manners” because she values the benefactor’s feelings above those of her son and
herself. By putting herself first and failing to think about consequences before saying “‘Why do you always have to use me to show off?’”, Waverly is challenging the values of her family and community. Waverly teaches the reader that while being successful, one must not forget the opportunities and people that are standing right in front of them.
The Only Game, by Mike Lupica, is about a 6th grade boy named Jack that is very good at baseball. When the book starts out Jack and his old team mates are very excited that baseball season is just about to start up again. They all are out on the field explaining how it looks and smells so great. Then the day arrives that they had all been waiting for, tryouts. Jack explains how it is great to be back at it with his best friend Gus. After tryouts they found out who all made the team and it was basically the same team that they had last year. This year was supposed to be the year that they win the Little League World Series. They had all the offence and defense they needed to go all the way. Last year’s team made it to the World series
There is finesse to her arguments, but they are not subtle. They do not need to be. They have the benefit of being right, the history of countless female athletes backing them, and the self assuredness from this to know that sometimes, you cannot simply press a point. You must hit it with a hammer. And that's what Heywood, her essay, and Title IX all do. In A world where the “female athlete triad” (eating disorders, exercise compulsion, and amenorrhea) are alive and well, female athletes need to know that they do not need to compete against themselves and their friends. It is enough to compete against the rest of the world. Heywood, as an athlete who experienced the female athlete triad, feels that she missed out on the true benefits of sports. Friendship, teamwork, and most importantly, “what the books call self esteem: feeling the warm sun on your face, walking across the field like a giant, feeling that just for a moment, the world belongs to you.” The fight to allow females to compete in sports has been won. Now, there is a new fight. To teach females in sports that they do not have to crush everyone else, to knock everyone else to the ground so they can be the one left standing. The new frontier for females will be an athlete who loves her sport, wants to win, and gives it her all, but doesn’t have to destroy herself or anyone else to do
She doesn't face her problems or try to fix them. Waverly and her mother are constantly fighting and disagreeing with each other because of her mother's boastful pride. This conflict continues to build up until Waverly is no longer able to take it and runs away. When Waverly's mother boasts to others about Waverly's success in chess, Waverly "raced down the street, dashing between people, not looking back as [her] mother screamed shrilly" (Tan 23). This shows that Waverly runs away from her conflicts. Because her mother is so proud, she boasts to everyone about Waverly. This annoys Waverly because she feels embarrassed about her mother always showing her pride
“Anyone can have a child and call themselves a parent. A real parent is someone who puts that child above their own selfish needs and want.” – unknown. “Rules of the Game,” a short story crafted by Amy Tan, depicts a conflict between mother and daughter. Waverly, a young female chess prodigy, lives in San Francisco’s Chinatown with her family. As Waverly develops into a great chess player, the pressure and control of her mother becomes too much to handle. Waverly’s mother has a mentally abusive relationship with her daughter. The Mother fails to give Waverly room to grow and she puts an unhealthy amount of pressure on such a young girl.
Amy Tan and Sandra Cisneros are both excellent writers. Their stories are really interesting and entertaining, especially for college students and for individuals who are just looking for something to read. After reading several papers to do this paper on, I chose two that really spoke to me and were definitely worth the read. These two stories are Amy Tan’s “Rules of The Game”’ and Sandra Cisneros, “Only Daughter”. I choose to analyze these two stories in their socio-economic setting in terms of the notions of success, and compare and contrast how the main characters deal with these conflicts in their lives. Through comparing and contrasting Tan’s “Rules of The Game” and Cisneros’ “Only Daughter”, it is evident that their
Although pride can lead to beneficial outcomes, pride with the absence of empathy can lead to a devastating result. The Most Dangerous Game by Richard Connell shows that having too much pride and no empathy can get someone in some terrible trouble. The theme is proven by Rainsfords pride and unempathetic-ness, how the general had too much pride, and how the general only saw himself as the hunter, not the hunted.
Waverly walked into Lindo's house to see her lying on the couch looking weak, almost deathlike. Waverly yells to get up to find out that her mother was just napping. The venerable look her mother had made her look nothing like the devil, like she had imagined. Not was the right time for Waverly to tell Lindo she was going to get married with rich, Lindo explains that she already knew this was coming. Waverly also confessed about how she thought her mother, Lindo, hater rich and Lindo replies with it isn't true. Lindo tells her she has good potential and that she isn't against her marriage with Rich. Their one on one conversation made Waverly finally understand her mother and how she lover an cares for
Silver Linings Playbooks tells the story of Pat Solitano Jr. (played by Bradley Cooper), a high school teacher diagnosed with bipolar disorder who is trying to get his life back together. The movie opens as Pat is released from a psychiatric hospital after eight months of treatment and moves back in with his parents. He is determined to get back together with his wife, Nikki, despite all the signs that say she does not want to be with him - such as the restraining order she filed against him. Pat meets recently widowed Tiffany Maxwell (played by Jennifer Lawrence), who is suffering from depression and overcoming a sex addiction that ensued from the death of her husband. Tiffany offers to help deliver Pat’s letters to Nikki if he enters a dance competition with her. As the movie goes on, Pat and Tiffany’s relationship progresses and they learn to cope with their issues.
An example of this is the lack of food that the children have throughout the novel. Due to the poor socioeconomic status of the family, Jeannette and her siblings never have food to take for their school lunches. This would have been understandable if the family had no means to make money, however, this is not the case. Jeannette says that she and Brian found a “genuine two-carat” diamond ring. Jeannette tells her mother that “…that ring could get us a lot of food“ (Walls 118). In response, Rose Mary says “That's true…but it could also improve my self-esteem. And at times like these, my self-esteem is even more vital than food” (Walls 118). Clearly, Rose Mary exhibits a selfish attitude and prioritizes her self-esteem over the needs of her family. If she had sold the diamond ring, a family which could not even afford to eat would be able to thrive. Evidently, by placing her own needs above those of the family, Rose Mary shows how she is willing to prioritize herself at the peril of her family. Contrastingly, Rex tends to put the children’s needs above his own. When the children need new beds, Jeannette says that he “built each of us a wooden box with sliding doors for personal stuff” along with the bunk beds (Walls 96). Moreover, he lets the children have the bedroom in Welch and resorts to sleeping on a
In "The Rules of the Game," a short story about a young Chinese-American girl, Waverly Jong, embarks journey to become a chess master. Waverly's mother believes she is a key component during this journey. Even though the mother actually has no true role in Waverly's adventure, she continues to believe it is her as the one who is succeeding. This belief is a necessity for Waverly's mother because she has nothing for herself. Waverly's mother has to live through her daughter because of her own lack of success.
The Rules is quite possibly one of the greatest marketing ploys to have ever been created and has developed into in its own words "a creature unlike any other." By successfully exploiting the classic notion of "happily ever after," Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider have created a mega brand that has sold millions of dollars of nonsensical teachings to unsuspecting women for more than a decade. I call these teachings nonsensical not because they aren't effective, but because of, among other things, Fein and Schneider's lack of authority, a number of glaring contradictions, inappropriate use of cause and effect, and an overall lack of evidence to support their arguments.
For many of us growing up, our mothers have been a part of who we are. They have been there when our world was falling apart, when we fell ill to the flu, and most importantly, the one to love us when we needed it the most. In “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan, it begins with a brief introduction to one mother’s interpretation of the American Dream. Losing her family in China, she now hopes to recapture part of her loss through her daughter. However, the young girl, Ni Kan, mimics her mother’s dreams and ultimately rebels against them.
Some people say that the love between a mother and her daughter is forever; but what about the understanding? In the case of Waverly Jong and her mother in the story “Rules of the Game,” by Amy Tan, there is much miscommunication and misunderstanding. The story is set in mid-1950’s Chinatown and as the story opens, it is Christmas time. “Rules of the Game” is the telling of how a little girl learns to be more independent but falls into conflict with her mother along the way and becomes a type of trophy. Amy Tan uses elements such as character, symbolism, and setting to portray the themes of struggle between two cultures and independence perfectly in “Rules of the Game.”
When Waverly won another tournament, her mother states, “Next time win more, lose less… ... Lost eight piece this time. Last time was eleven. What I tell you? Better off lose less!” (Amy Tan 6). Waverly’s mother explains to her that loosing pieces i not wanted to win and less should be lost. She later patronizes Waverly for not keeping enough pieces compared to before. Waverly’s mother expects that Waverly should always be aiming for less loses and sees that if makes a better win. Waverly does indeed feel annoyed from this. From what
Success goes hand in hand with failure. “You win some, you lose some” is a famous quote which epitomises one of the main core’s of life as these two components are apart of every human being’s daily life. In the same way, they are a part of every sporting event. In life everyone strives for success, yet not always do we attain success instantly, often it requires many failures before success can be achieved. Humphrey asserts that sport ‘brings out the worst in people’, and yes, it is within failure where the worst is brought out of people as many people hate the feeling of failure. However, no matter what one fails at, they will always express their bad side, for example: when one fails at their job, when one fails their license and so on. Sports is the best opportunity for people to learn the benefits and necessity of failure, thus allowing their outlook on failure to be change which in turn corrects the behaviour that comes with failure. Sports also allows one to feel the sense of accomplishment that emanates with success. It therefore teaches the sportsmen how to cope better wit...