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This is a pivotal moment in Rex and Jeanette’s relationship. Throughout Rex’s drunken escapades Jeanette has been the only one to fight on behalf of Rex and say that he is still trying to do what is best for his family, so it’s important that Jeannette be the one to confront Rex about his drinking problem and how it is affecting their family. Even though other members of the family, like Brian, allow their frustration to show and have come close to confronting Rex, I don’t think that anyone else could successfully do so except Jeannette. This is because she has shown incredible and unwavering support for her father over the years and when Rex gets the impression that Jeanette’s support is starting to waver he knows that what he’s allowed his drinking to become, is deeply and negatively affecting those around him. …show more content…
This is illustrated when the author says, “...when he turned to me, his eyes had a wounded look, like a dog who’s been kicked.” Also when Jeanette says, “It’s just that I think Mom would be a lot happier. Plus, we’d have the extra money.” It forces Rex to face the fact that he hasn’t supported and provided for his family and his children well enough, like he thinks a father should. He also is forced to face that he has done things that make his daughter feel uncomfortable and sad and frightened in their own house, which topples his good spirits. You can also tell Jeannette is extremely hesitant to go through with the request, the way she refuses to make eye contact with her father as she builds up the courage to ask him to stop drinking suggests that she knows the powers her words
However, nothing has ever made Rex more depressed than losing his little girl, Mary Charlene, when she was just nine months old. After she died he was never quite the same. This is possibly the main depressing event which happened the Rex Walls life that caused him to start drinking. Rex Walls has had a series of unfortunate events happen to him throughout his life time. All of these events leading up to his addiction to
The Other Side of the Bridge by Mary Lawson is a book that depicts two different people, that mainly focuses on jealousy, rivalry and the power of obsession over half a century. There are many characters in the novel and they build relationships with one another that eventually become intertwined. The relationships that are built end up having an effect on the character, and contributes something different to his understanding of himself and the decisions he makes. Ian in the novel is an example of that, where the relationships he builds with the others, helps him find who he is as a person and affects the decisions he makes. Specifically through the relationships with Pete, his father, and Jake, he gains something different from each character which proves to be vital to who he is. Without these characters, Ian would be very different, as each character contributed something to Ian’s ultimate understanding of himself.
By keeping Dinitia away from Erma, Jeannette protects her from Erma's racism. By protecting her former bully, Jeannette shows how caring she is. Additionally, Jeannette believes in people and chooses to see the good in them. When Brian accuses their father of spending all his money on booze, Jeannette defends him (Walls 78). Her father says, "I swear, honey, there are times when I think you're the only one around who still has faith in me" (Walls 78).
This can lead to frequent absences from work, unemployment, and misusing financial resources of the household and family. In Rex’s case in particular, he hurt the entire family: Distinctly, the Walls hold a short budget to begin with, but due to Rex’s constantly poor employment situation, and his control of Jeannette for alcohol money from their miniscule budget, the family is worse off than when they even started. Rex struggles to find employment due to alcohol’s effects: loss of work ethic and the pull to drink according to Drug Free. It doesn’t help that Jeannette gives in to Rex’s requests, but in the end they have even less money than they had. In addition to the financial hardships, the children tremendously suffer from their Rex’s behavior. As soon as Rex’s alcoholism hits it peak and the family grows well aware, Jeannette begins to adopt a trait called codependency. Codependency may be
Conflicts influence someone’s actions and decisions because they can control whether to make it bigger or make it better. In this case, Rex made some decisions to make things have a good turnout instead of bad. Jeannette uses many literary devices to tell this book, and to introduce adversity. There were many other conflicts in the book that turned out bad, because of the decisions that were made. Bravery is something Jeannette and her family have, because of everything they have dealt with and been through. Adversity popped up often in the book, Jeannette made people realize it by her literary
When Erma died, he spent four days in Junior’s Bar. Erma was his mother. The children were walking home from Erma’s funeral with their parents. Their father Rex was so distraught that he once again resorted to alcohol. When they were walking, Jeannette and her siblings noticed “He turned down the street to Junior’s bar. We all watched him go… Dad just kept walking” (Walls 181). Rex’s family is ashamed of him for drinking, but they rarely make an effort to help him stop. Alcoholism is a disease that is deadly for many people. It is not something that you can conclude without help. Rex took all of what money the Walls family did have and spent it on alcohol. This was a recurring event. This lead the young children to fend for themselves. They often had to go days without food but if they did have food, it was sometimes inedible. In many cases, they were pilfering through other people’s belongings. Substance abuse is dangerous in a sense that the substance itself causes many life threatening conditions. It can also be dangerous because people will do anything they can to be able to abuse again. This includes taking money that could be used on a week of groceries or to heat a home during
In Mark Knapp’s model of relationship development, there are 5 stages of romantic relationships coming together and 5 stages of romantic relationships coming apart. In this paper I will chose 4 stages to further explore. With each of the four stages I will use song lyrics to help analyze these stages. The first stage I have chosen to analyze is the stagnating stage and I used the song do I by Luke Bryan. Secondly, I chose the song falling for you by Colbie Caillet to help examine the intensifying stage. Third, I chose the integrating stage and I used the song from this moment on by Shania Twain featuring Bryan White to help interpret this stage. Lastly, I chose the song when I said I do by Clint Black and Lisa Hartman to explain the bonging stage of Mark Knapp’s model of relationship development.
While Jeannette’s father acknowledges that he is harming his family and tries to better himself, her mother never once tries to improve. She ignores all of her and her family’s problems, often times contributing more to the problem to benefit herself, worsening the situation for her children. The mother copes in selfish ways, disregarding her family in order to make her life more enjoyable. A perfect example is when the family is sitting in the living room without any food, trying to keep their minds off of hunger, when Brian, Jeannette’s brother, sees that the mother is discretely eating a chocolate bar. The mother tries to defend herself, saying that she’s a “sugar addict, just like [their] father is an alcoholic.” (Walls 174) The mother has never showed any signs of an addiction to sugar, and she’s clearly trying to get the kids sympathy for being selfish. She has behavior that is completely destructive for her family, and she needs to learn and practice better coping
I agree with you when you say that Jeannette and her siblings made the right decision by moving to New York. I also would have done the same, although it would be challenging. You make excellent points concerning the factors that contribute to alcoholism. Like you said, Rex uses alcoholism as a coping method to numb the pain that resulted from his childhood abuse. Without the sadness and grief that arose from that incident, he may not have felt the need to resort to alcohol as an escape. In the memoir, Rex repeatedly provides Jeannette and her siblings with false hope for a better life. For example, he chains himself to a bed for a week in an attempt to fulfill the promise that he made to Jeannette to stop drinking, he promises to build a glass
Theo is moved from the Barbour home, which he did like to his dad’s place which is not the most welcoming of households; “There was a lot of drinking going on at my house, on Xandra’s end anyway, a lot of slammed doors” (Tartt 301). Theo was moved from a really great house, to this one. Xandra is Theo’s dad’s girlfriend. Both his dad, and Xandra are heavily into alcohol, which does not make for the best living environment. They both chastise Theo, and he feels so out of place. This home makes him miss his life with his mother even
However as Jeanette and her siblings quickly lose their innocence and are pulled into the reality of life, her idolization of her parents, (especially her father) gradually lessens and she comes to terms with their flawed lifestyle. As she begins to lose hope in her parents, she begins describing them in a more negative light. For example, she exposes the intensification of her father's drinking problem. “He staggered off to the bathroom, came back, ordered one for the road, slammed the shot glass down on the bar, and walked to the door. He lost his footing trying to open it and sprawled on the floor. I tried to help him up, but he kept falling over”(page?) This repugnant and embarrassing description of Rex, contrasts how Jeanette tried to showcase his admirable qualities earlier in the story. In the sentence she also no longe...
Rex knew that Jeannette was deserving of a better life than migrating place to place every once in a while and eating commodity foods. By pretending to make plans to build this utopian house for her, he kept her imagination and her faith in him alive and taught her to keep looking forward in life. However, as Jeanette grew up that did not cut it anymore. “What I was thinking was that you don’t have to go right away, and I’ll build the Glass Castle, I swear it. We’ll all live in it together. It’ll be a hell of a lot better than any apartment you’ll ever find in New York City, I can guaran-goddamn-tee that,”(Walls 238). After Jeannette turned her father’s offer down, he knew that she had her mind set on going to New York.With two of his children leaving him, Rex was heartbroken, but he understood that they would have a better life there than they would have by staying in
Rex has many good traits that show he can be a good father when he isn’t drinking. One of these traits is that he never gives up hope. He promises his family that he will build them a house called the Glass Castle, a place where they can finally settle down in one place and stop skedaddling. Jeannette describes the Glass Castle as “a house completely made of glass and had solar cells on the top that would catch the sun’s rays and convert them into electricity for heating and cooling and running all the appliances”(25). One other positive thing he does for them is that he teaches his children important skills like swimming, self-defense and how to read and write. In one part of the memoir, Jeannette and her father are at the Hot Pot, a sulfur spring in the hills and Rex uses a teaching method that would make him seem crazier than he really is. He throws Jeannette in
Relationships surround us all though out lift. Everyone needs some type of relationship, whether it's a friendship, family, or lover. People can't last without them, no matter how different the relationships are. In the novel The Bone People, it's based on the relationships between the three main characters; Kerewin, Joe and Simon.
Oates’ novella is a love story between Officer Dromoor and the Maguire women, both Teena and Bethel. It is a tale that morphs a love for justice into one that represents a love for feeling supported. The Maguires are scorned by the people of Niagara Falls. Teena, even more so after the gang rape, is perceived as the town ‘whore,’ drug addict, and a bad parent. John Dromoor’s mere presence on the family creates a mutual respect, or love, amidst such difficult circumstances. Years after the events at the Rocky Point Park occurred and Dromoor is no longer in the Maguires’ lives, the story ends with Bethel’s husband telling her that she “looked so lonely, suddenly” (Oates 154) after