Relationship Stages Essay

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Relationship plays vital role in our life. As we grow up, we have passed many relationships with every person that we meet in our life. Relationship can motivate someone or make someone feel worse when the relationship does not work. In relationship, everyone needs to give their commitments or the relationship will fall to the ground. Everyone has their own story behind relationship term. I have my own story and I will explain it in terms of the 10 relationship stages in this essay. My story is about my first love with this one beautiful girl. Our relationship started with initiating stage. Our relationship begins when we met each other in our new high school since both of us came from another high school before. At first we just glanced at each …show more content…

Unfortunately, we entered circumscribing stage. During this stage, both of us tried to avoid something that can turns into arguments. Because of this reason, our self-disclosure become lesser since we avoided talking about things that we used to discuss together as we afraid that it will turn into arguments. Both of us were busy with our college assignment. This situation was very different than what we faced during our high school time. Outwardly, people see our relationship is okay but there are lots of problems that happened between us. Things got worse as we reached stagnating stage. Our overall communications lessens during this stage. Our conversations was about greeting and we just asked how both of us doing. This makes our relationship becomes weaker. I become frustrated with this situation since I want our old times together. It feels like all of our efforts to build this relationship just fall to the ground. Then, our relationship entered avoiding stage. She started to use study as a reason for not replying my text. I felt like she wanted to avoid me most of the times. It took 2 days for her to reply my text and we start to have big arguments during this stage. I tried to save this relationship but I have

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