Reflection On Love And Attachments By Haidt

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In Haidt chapter on Love and attachments, one idea I liked is passionate and companionate love and the caring system. All these factors can play a key part in my experiment since in some cases kids do not enjoy certain things you do like music or even food. It does not mean that you will not want to hang out with them. On the days I do work in the school I will try being more friendly to the kids by not expressing much anger and not be giving out detentions. Even though, this may possibly be difficult to do I will constantly keep talking to myself to not get angry just keep having a smile without smirking. The way I am going to document this experience will be jotting down some key notes each time it is working or fails on a google doc. When

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