Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

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“Follow your heart, but be quiet for a while first. Ask questions, then feel the answer. Learn to trust your heart.” Heart. Feelings. Trust. All of these concepts said by Carl W. Buechner are philosophies that are spoken of freely in the twenty-first century, where love is limitless and marriage is bound by no restraints. A rich man can easily fall in love with his maid. A poor couple can just as effortlessly run off and get married. However, during the turn of the nineteenth century, this was regarded as foolish, even outrageous. Marriage was for stability, for financial reliability. Love or the “heart” was not at all a necessity, nor even a component to the formula. Happiness in marriage was simply a rare bonus. But Jane Austen proves this contrary in her novel Pride and Prejudice. Her protagonist, Elizabeth, defies the social norm of acquiring a husband for the mere sake of security and instead looks for love. But Elizabeth is no weak, romanticized girl. Her “modern” outlook leads her ultimately to success. Other characters like Charlotte or Lydia will have lukewarm or cold marriages because there were no true feelings of love or even affection; thus, though financial stability is present in Charlotte’s case, there is no intrinsic relationship stability. With this in mind, Austen’s characters’ wide-ranging attributes indicate a wide spectrum of possible relationship developments, but the “happiest” marriage is exemplified in Elizabeth’s because hers is illuminated by full knowledge and mutual love, equating to a secure relationship.

Jane, Elizabeth, and Lydia portray that growing up in the same household, with the same parents, and in the same environment can still yield very different personalities. Jane, the eldest, is bene...

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...ouples in Pride and Prejudice, they have the worst financial situation. Wickham’s gambling problem will more than likely lead to more debts and a quickly emptied bank, even with Darcy’s initial money. Lydia and Wickham’s distorted idea of marriage can only lead to disaster.

Elizabeth and Darcy’s relationship proves that security and stability does not begin and end with monetary requisites, and that a fully realized marriage includes both. Their relationship is balanced and characterized by their human flaws; it is not too seemingly perfect like Jane and Bingley’s, and not too imperfect like Lydia and Wickham’s. The saying “follow your heart” does hold some truth in it then, though moderation and good conscience is a requisite. Listen. Do not act too rashly like Lydia did, or too impassively like Jane did. As Carl Buechner said, “…be quiet for a while first.”

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