Pride And Prejudice Marriage Essay

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Lessons of Marriage from Pride and Prejudice

Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, teaches us numerous points about love, marriage, and where to place your heart. The choice concerning a marriage partner reflects the strength of your character. Even though the book Pride and Prejudice is over 200 years old it can still make a major impact through its insight into matrimonial matters. Each prominent marriage in Pride and Prejudice presents a unique message that everyone can learn from but ultimately a blessed marriage challenges both partners to grow in their relationship and to develop into a better person through Christ.

The first marriage we find in Pride and Prejudice is Mr. and Mrs. Bennet’s. This marriage illustrates, in a negative way, …show more content…

and Mrs. Bennet married out of youthful carelessness and affection. This same mistake is again repeated by their daughter Lydia when she elopes with the cunning, sly Wickham. It doesn’t take long for their romance to fade. When Lydia hears that her sister Elizabeth is to marry Darcy, Lydia begs the couple for a court appointment for her husband, confessing, “I do not think we shall have quite money enough to live upon without some help." The marriage between Lydia and Wickham was assuredly not the right choice. The difference between a peaceful marriage and a hopeless one is ultimately boils down to your attitude and behavior. Hastiness in acting too quickly lead to a certain downfall in their marriage. (insert …show more content…

Collins, an awkward, pompous, idiotic clergyman whom Elizabeth had quickly turned down earlier, Elizabeth is disappointed in her friend’s choice. Choice however is the big decision and it comes down to your priorities and what really matters: money and a life of plenty or true love. Marriage is “the only provision for well-educated young women of small fortune, and however uncertain of giving happiness, must be their pleasantest preservative from want.” This “preservative,” Elizabeth realizes, Charlotte gains in her marriage to Mr. Collins. Charlotte chooses the life of wealth and eventually learns to love Mr. Collins and find happiness. Love is a choice and she chooses to love Mr. Collins even though it may have been difficult. That choice brings her joy even though she did not choose to marry the most agreeable man. Later, when Elizabeth visits the couple, she discovers that Charlotte has found peace with her choice. Charlotte’s new settlement has “an air of great comfort throughout,” and Elizabeth can observe Charlotte's “contentment” and her “evident enjoyment.” However, Elizabeth did not and would not choose the same. And in fact, no two marriages are the same. Every marriage is unique. Trying to force one way on all individual marriages welcomes

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