Planning a Wedding

Planning a Wedding

It seems like only yesterday that my sister and I, adorned in flowers and lace, were playing house and rehearsing imaginary wedding vows. The past twenty-one years seem like a whirlwind and every day keeps coming faster and faster. The big day is no longer a fantasy; my wedding is five months away. What do I still need to make this event as special as I’ve wanted it to be for more than half of my life? There are so many things put into a wedding, and efficient planning is very important. I hope to give as much advice on some of the things that were the most significant while I have been planning my wedding.

Many important things have been accomplished in the last few months, but many significant tasks still need to be done between now and July 10th. Being a bride entails many responsibilities and priorities that must be balanced. I have learned many lessons and experiences while planning for my wedding. Adding to the challenge is the fact that I am a college student-athlete and must balance the wedding planning between school and running (practice, competition and traveling), in addition to being hours away from home, which makes it harder to plan sufficiently. Planning a wedding would be easier the second time around, but fortunately, marriage is a commitment that I intend to honor “until death do us part.” With the knowledge that I have accumulated while preparing for my wedding, I plan to give advice to brides, and possibly grooms, that could be very beneficial in planning their ideal wedding.

One of the first things that I would advise is to maintain the bond that has been established between you and your fiancé. Weddings often become a production instead of what it was intended: a...

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...eption will also make a difference. A sit-down formal dinner will double the amount of money for food. Therefore it is suggested to have cocktails/appetizers or a buffet style reception. This will ease some of the costs.

According to Elegant Bride, “attending to every detail in a timely and courteous manner will make your joyous occasion a pleasure.” This is a way to say thanks to the ones that are special and who made the entire process special. The bridesmaids and groomsmen should all get a little gift to reflect your appreciation. You should give your parents a token of appreciation like a bouquet of flowers or a night at a bed and breakfast.

There are many aspects of planning a wedding. It is important to keep everything in perspective and to make many compromises. Good luck in creating memories that will last a lifetime. Most of all, have fun!