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Many people have lost loved ones in their lives over time. It happens to everyone. For some it may have had a little effect on their life and others it could have changed their whole perspective. It just all depends on the trauma of the experience. Now I have had loved ones who have passed away but one person in particular who was very close to death changed my perspective on life.
July 1st, 2014 was the day when something terrible happened to my family and I. I was on my ordinary routine and went to summer weights in the morning. My mom at the time woke up and her whole left side of her body was numb and she could barely comprehend things. Yet she still drove me to weights and went on to work. Since that morning I knew something was wrong but I tossed it in the back of my mind and focused on getting stronger and fit. About an hour after working out we were changing rotations when an adult ran up to me and grabbed me making me run. The lady took me around the high school corner and there was my grandma. I could feel in my stomach that something was wrong. All that she said was that your mom was in the hospital and then we both ran to the car and left.
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We hardly spoke until we got there.
It was only me and her, and the doctors wouldn't let us see my mom. I held back the tears that were trying to come out and just focused on getting my brother and dad to come out of work. When they showed up the doctors let us come in one at a time. When I came into the ER room my mother was lying on a bed staring at the ceiling. I tried to talk to her but she couldn't talk. It took everything I had to not stop and cry in that very spot but I just gave her a hug and left the room. The doctors werent telling us anything until they said they were going to transport her to the Wesley Medical Hospital in Wichita. So they loaded her up in an ambulance and my dad and I followed while my brother went home to take care of
things. When we got to the hospital they already had her in her room, and she was sleeping from the medicine they gave her. The doctors at the hospital still didn't know what was wrong. All they told my dad was that it might be a close one. She spent sixteen days in the hospital in the intensive care unit covering surgerys, MRI’s, and even a spinal tap. They finally conducted that she had blood clots on top of her brain but they were going away from the blood thinner she was on. On July 28th she finally came home. She still had clots on her brainstem now but she could live without being cared in the hospital. Now here she is having to take shots that I give her every friday that make her sick for three days. She has to take them to make sure the blood clots don't grow. The main thing I learned from this experience was that no matter how hard you try something will be the outcome, never give up. I now realize that when the doctor said “that it was a close one” meant she was close to dying. From the difficult time I now want to be a nurse and help other people like the nurses and doctors who helped my mom. My perspective on life has changed because now I know that theres heros out there who help people as their job. So now before you think that heroes only wear capes, you might be missing the actual heroes out there.
This is crazy. Why am I afraid? I’m acting as if this is my first funeral. Funerals have become a given, especially with a life like mine, the deaths of my father, my uncle and not my biological mother, you would think I could be somewhat used to them by now. Now I know what you’re thinking, death is all a part of life. But the amount of death that I’ve experienced in my life would make anyone cower away from the thought. This funeral is nothing compared to those unhappy events.
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My father passed away in 1991, two weeks before Christmas. I was 25 at the time but until then I had not grown up. I was still an ignorant youth that only cared about finding the next party. My role model was now gone, forcing me to reevaluate the direction my life was heading. I needed to reexamine some of the lessons he taught me through the years.
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My Father dying has a profound impact on my perspective on life, and time. In fact it was the first time I considered how much time do I have left? Whereas when my grandfather died it was all about the emotion of the loss. It was also a learning experience in that I never dealt with death before.
On the day my father died, I remember walking home from school with my cousin on a November fall day, feeling the falling leaves dropping off the trees, hitting my cold bare face. Walking into the house, I could feel the tension and knew that something had happened by the look on my grandmother’s face. As I started to head to the refrigerator, my mother told me to come, and she said that we were going to take a trip to the hospital.
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February twenty-third 2010 was just a regular ordinary day. I was on my way to class on this cold February afternoon, when my phone rung. It was my cousin on the other end telling me to call my mom. I could not figure out what was wrong, so I quickly said okay and I hung up and called my mom. When my mom answered the phone I told her the message but I said I do not know what is wrong. My mom was at work and could not call right away, so I took the effort to call my cousin back to see what was going on. She told me that our uncle was in the hospital and that it did not look good. Starting to tear up I pull over in a fast food restaurant parking lot to listen to more to what my cousin had to say. She then tells me to tell my mom to get to the hospital as quickly as possible as if it may be the last time to see her older brother. My mom finally calls me back and when I tell her the news, she quickly leaves work. That after-noon I lost my Uncle.
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