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All my life ,I’ve always wanted to be someone in life who can actually make a difference to this world in a positive way. Ever since I was a little girl I pushed myself to always best I can be just . I lived in a town outside Los Angeles, California , it was called Van Nuys,California.The elementary school (Kittridge Elementary) I had went to was in a low income area, mainly spanish community had lived in the area I was living in at the time .I had a lot of friends (mainly mexicans) I focused a lot on being on time for school , staying on task in class, and finishing my homework. At such a young age I had felt such ambition and was doing very good for myself. At the age of 10 was when reality start to really hit me , even though I was very young I started to see things differently. I had moved to …show more content…
The first day I walked into class I was stared at from head to toe by all these kids. Some laughed and whispered to other students. I had my hair braided and was wearing very bagy looking pants and a RBD shirt(mexican pop singers) , as I sat down a girl who was white asked me if I spoke english. I immediately looked at her and said “yes.” she turns back to her friends and say “doesn’t sound like it”I had felt so embarrassed and ashamed of myself.I didn’t have any friends the first school year , I was labeled as the “bean girl”. I had rarely ever spoke or interacted in class because , of how embarrassed I was on the person who I was. My grades started going down and I would get in trouble by the teacher for not interacting. I was constantly bullied by fellow classmates and at times they would intended to get me in trouble for things I never did.I was lost and confused at such a young age. These girls were picking on me just for being the person I was for
In the morning after eating breakfast, I would get this feeling in my gut that something bad was going to happen to me in school. Sometimes nothing happened. Other times I would just get bullied and get into fights but I would always be blamed for starting it. I couldn’t defend myself because I didn’t know English and my mom as well, so I didn’t tell her anything about what was going on or anyone. I kept my mouth shut like the bully told me to. Throughout the years’ I felt so alone, depressed, things a child shouldn’t experience or feel. When the school year was done, I had failed 3rd grade. One day I was going to the park and I got jumped by the same bullies from my school they had taken my money my mom gave me and beat me up. I woke up laying on the ground and night was nearing. I was filled with anger and I screamed “NO! MORE!” repeatedly. During the summer I thought if learning English even if it’s a little bit, can get me a chance to move on from this depressing time, I would grab that chance. Every day after summer school, I would go to the public library and see if there were any books that taught basic English. Good thing the librarian’s assistant knew Spanish. During that time, I learned that I didn’t need any ones’ help, I had me and only
If someone was to ask me two years ago what I wanted to be I would have greeted them with silence. Before I was a very anti-social person and I didn’t really like speaking much in front of a public, audience, or even my small group of friends. I was the type of girl who preferred staying home in the weekends and watch Netflix instead of going out. But everything changed when I went on a missionary trip with my church to Mexicali. The church I attend has a group of volunteers who go every 2-3 months on the weekends to Mexicali. In these trips we distribute clothes, food, essentials, toys, and candies for all the kids and people in Mexico that live in poverty. Many people who live there live in harsh conditions and are struggling to provide a home for their families. My first trip was a life changing experience because it changed the person who I was. I became an active and outgoing person. I became to appreciate and value the possessions I have at home. Every time I see the kids at Mexicali content when they receive a pair of shoes or a piece sandwich it makes me pleased of myself because I’m able to help them with what I can. Throughout these series of trips I discover my passion and how I have a soft spot for kids. Since Mexicali and where I live have a very large driving distance and I can’t go every day I also volunteer to help kids and adults around my community also. I have help
I have always considered myself a very promising student. I have worked extremely hard and received high grades. I have a close knit group of friends and my teachers and I have mutual respect for each other .Although I would consider myself at this present stage ‘fulfilled’ something was missing. I realized it wasn’t a materialistic aspect of my life. Through a tragic incident I finally discovered what fit perfectly in that vacancy. The consecutive hospitalizations of my grandparents evoked great pain and sorrow. However, out of the scorching intensity of this tragedy I was warmed and comforted by realizing what I was devoid of: community service.
I wanted to start making a difference in kids as soon as I had the chance. I started to take Early Childhood Education classes at my school. This course was rigorous and so important, due to the fact we ran a preschool of 20 four and five-year old’s. Their education was in our hands; we were that building block for their first insight on school. I feel in love with writing lesson plans and being hand in hand with other teachers and the students became a part of my life that I never wanted to go away. I interned at an elementary school just to get more involved and learn more about collaborating. I started taking a Teaching as a Profession class, so I could not only know today’s education but become familiar with the history of education, how to accommodate your classroom for students with special needs, and the issues in todays education. I completed this class and took the state mandated test to complete the pathway and get a cord at graduation. I came in on Sundays to work and study with my teacher for this test and it all paid off when I passed the test with the highest score out of the nine people who took the test. While this was all happening I was inducted into National Beta Club for my grades and averages in my classes, which mostly included advanced courses. I then completed the Early
At the end of my 8th grade one of my aunts from Chicago offered me a room in her apartment. I accepted and traveled back to Chicago. I started freshman year in Steinmetz college prep. My English was bad because I never used it back in Mexico and it had been more than six years. My freshman year they put me in ESL classes, but by the end of that year I had improved so much that they took me out of ESL and offered me a place in the IB program. I was starting to like it, but something horrible happened. My grandpa died, and my aunt went back to Mexico and decided to take care of my grandma. I was almost going to go back to Mexico, but luckily one of my aunts that lived in Arkansas, offered me a place in her house. So I left Chicago and all my new friends and school and went to the south. Being the new kid in school is the worst. You don't know anybody and you don't have friends. The school was called Springdale High-school. I made no friends and pretty much sat by myself at lunch the whole year I was there. At the end of that year my aunt told me that my cousin, that was sharing his room with me, told her that he didn't have “privacy” anymore and that I had to
I made it my obligation to undo my wrong and be more of a leader and was able to have others follow by example. By being more friendly and thoughtful the individual was able to feel some relief and make new friends while attending school. By me being in this situation at a young age help me become fully aware of what I wanted to do in life which is helping others because of me helping and supporting this individual it made me feel positive about my change in uplifting another human being. The impact it has had on my view of bullying and torment to others now that I am older and more, wiser is when I’m in a situation where I’m thinking cruelty or someone is being cruel in my presence. I always think back to fifth grade and put myself in that persons position I also believe that this life experience will go a long way in helping others to the best of my ability with their problems or issues they are dealing with by looking beyond myself and helping my future patient I’m able to look beyond myself I feel I can be more useful and valuable to my community and peers I can teach them my life experience and what I learned so they won’t have to make the same mistakes that I have , I want my experience that I faced to change
Years went by, and during third grade things turned left for me. Even though I was half Egyptian I have always felt like an outsider. I was a minority in my own culture due to the qualities I didn’t fulfill. The students would criticize and bully me for something I do that’s different from the way they did it. For example, I didn’t wear a hijab nor did I have a straight black hair so they would always ask me questions such as, why I’ve a different skin tone or why my hair is curly. I was young during that time therefore, I’d feel bad about myself and I cry to my mother everyday after school. I tried to learn and adapt the culture in order to blend in but it wasn’t working out because I was raised in a different way from the rest of my friends. My parents traveled abroad therefore, they weren’t one sided or as conservative as the rest parents. I thought I didn’t fit in therefore, I blocked myself from learning the culture of Egypt due to the problems I’ve faced. I detested everything. I stayed at home most of the time when my friends would go out after school. Two years later, we moved back to Ethiopia and I was very delighted to move out of Egypt. However, it wasn’t as exciting as I expected it to be because I was still facing the same problem in school. We had a morning presentation every Wednesday where students will introduce the different ethnicities of Ethiopia. Even though I knew about the cultures of Ethiopia, I was considered more Egyptian and therefore, students would not involve me in such activities. I had an identity crisis because I didn’t know where I belonged. After living in Ethiopia for five years, my parents decided to move to the U.S. in order for my older sisters to attend
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At the age of 10 I had truly begun to realize that I lived an exceptionally blessed life. This realization gave me the strength, at just 10 years old, to break out of my shell and do something incredible for the less fortunate. For my 10th birthday party I asked for all of my guests to bring me toys instead of presents. The feeling of helping others never went away. I began to volunteer for my church at the age of 12, helping with annual festivals and events, as well as volunteering to help for my church’s Beach Towel Ministry which is a program that gathers volunteers to rebuild houses for the less fortunate. Unfortunately, I was too young at the time to actually go out and help so I would stay in and help cook meals for the volunteers, something
In the beginning of the year we had a field trip to the bowling alley and since the other group left before us me and a teacher took his car and he took me to the wrong bowling ally and left me there for hours, my mom came and got me and she was furious and she basically “talked” to principal about it. Later around second quarter we found the lunch lines were way to long and the sandwiches were moldy and ice cold so we’d go upstairs and I had installed halo on every computer they had and we would sneak and just play halo until the bell, eventually we got caught by a teacher that was walking by and we all got I.S.S. This year I quit science Olympiad and because of more teacher drama I just didn’t care anymore. Nothing really exciting happened for the majority of the second to third quarter, but we all did get closer friends and we laughed joked around and it was great but teachers were horrible. In the end of third quarter I was sick of teachers accusing me of stuff so I stood out and did my own thing one day the teacher told me to move and I hadn’t done anything wrong and I pulled a Rosa Parks and didn’t move so she yelled and sent me to I.S.S. On my way out that day one kid said “ha ha bye” and I replied “F**K you!” so he told on me and I got written up twice that day and I dint really like that class that year by the end of that day I hated them even more. When I got in the assistant principal’s office I was surprised my old new P.E coach Mr. Jeeter was the assistant Principal and he lectured me on what I did wrong (frankly I knew what I did wrong and I just didn’t care). So he said “I have to call your parents” and with the world’s most not caring attitude I told him to tell him I said hi. By the end of the year all teachers hated me I knew every kid in seventh and eighth grade
It all started when Ms. McCrystal began a lesson on how evolutionary changes impacted the lives of other organisms. Allie knew something interesting was going to happen, because Ms. McCrystal was the most engaging teacher on team 8-1. The very next day Ms. McCrystal had all of her Students do an assignment on the five fingers of evolution. Then she announced that the class was going on a class trip to the science museum.
We have all had an event in our lives that feels like it will define you for the rest of you life. Early July in 100 degree heat made it a marvelous day for baseball. We’ve played in this heat since 10 A.M. and just finished playing our fifth straight game vs. Rollingstone. Now we just have to win two more games against our rivals the Byron Bears, and we would get to take home that shiny, gold trophy that has called our name since the moment we arrived. My life experience playing two high pressured games shows my nervousness in the first game vs Byron, in the second game vs Byron, and in the end of the game.
Entering high school I only had one goal in mind it was be involved and fix all mistakes that were done my middle school year. I may not be a valedictorian but I have challenged myself by taking AP courses throughout my high school years. I am not fluently in english, but this is what has pushed me to be involved in my community. I have been involved in couple of clubs, and the highest position I have held was being the president of M.E.C.H.A, Movimiento Estudiantil Chicano de Aztlan (Chicano Student Movement of Aztlan) club I am a field worker as well as my mother so during the weekend I go to work. After schools are my only chance to help my community so This when I go help in churches to prepared events, help during the events. School has
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I had never cried or not wanted to go to school. In the beginning, I was very shy and used to whisper everything in the teacher’s (Rosa) ears. I was very particular about keeping my footwear clean, while polishing shoes, I polished underneath too. My friends were artistic and were interested in art and music. In middle school, I had an amazing teacher. She was very friendly and helpful to all of us. My friends were really fun to hang out with and we clicked since the beginning. They shared the same interests with me like reading books, dancing, writing, etc. We used to bunk our art classes and play games in the class. I still talk to most of them, thanks to technology. The school once took us on a 5-day camping trip nearby and it was the best part of middle school. I loved the time spent with my friends, we shared so many secrets with each other. My favorite memory is when they took us to a beach. None of us had beach clothes so we all went into the water in our school uniforms. It was an amazing