Perfection is an unattainable characteristic. Many things might look golden and perfect on the outside while on the inside it could be crumbling and rotting. A big idea that many characters struggle with is perfection. Many characters in the novel Ordinary people by Judith Guest Strive for perfection in one way or another. One character that significantly struggles with the necessity of perfection throughout the novel is Beth. Throughout the beginning of the story it is easy to see Beth's obsession with the perfect appearance of her family. However things aren't always as they appear. At the end of the novel the reader witnesses the destruction of the perfect family.
Beth goes out of her way to make sure that her family's image is perfect
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and will not allow anything abnormal information about her family get released to the public. One example is at the party when Cal tells Marty that Con is seeing a doctor and Beth interrupts them and says they are going to leave. While in the car Cal and Beth begin to argue. “Look, some people consider that a status symbol,” he says, “right up there with going to Europe.” “I don't.
And I thought your blurting it out like that was in the worst possible taste.” “I'm sorry.” “Not to mention a violation of privacy.” “Whose privacy?” He asks. “Whose privacy did I violate?” She does not answer.” (Page#)
She doesn't want anybody to know that her family is not perfect, so she gets upset when Cal mentions Con’s doctor. She does not care about how it might help her son recover, all she cares about is how it affects the appearance of her family. If she put half the effort to the internal well being of her family as she did to the outer appearance of it, then the inevitable separation of her family could have been avoided.
At the end of the novel Beth decides to give up on the recovery of her family and leaves. Many are shocked when they hear this due to the perfect family front that she has created. Ray exclaims in shock “ I can't believe it, Cal. I mean christ, that's a fairy-tail marriage. Nancy's been holding you two up as a goddamn example for years! “(Page #) No One outside of the family ever knew that there were still problems with them. Beth managed to create a false cloak to put over her family's internal problems so that the outer appearance could stay perfect. Although her family appeared perfect to many people the truth was that they were slowly falling apart. Her pursuit of an external perfect appearance had a big factor of the separation of the
family Perfection may seem possible in some way or another but everything has a flaw. Many people have seeked perfection. Beth's need to make everything perfect was an obvious problem since the beginning of the novel. Her obsession with perfection left her no time to help with the internal problems of her family. If she took just a little less time to make the outer appearance of her family perfect she might have been able to help out with the internal separation of her family.
She was willing to let go of her pride and commitment to only be with each other in a marriage so her family could live in peace. For example, Casey says, “It ain’t right, me going up there. You’re my wife” (Offutt 143). Casey didn’t want to be with anyone else, besides his wife. Although Beth told Casey to do this for their family, she didn't throw the incident in his face for being with another woman nor become angry and spiteful.
In the book Ordinary people by Judith Guest it shows how the book advocates for the therapist by Dr. Berger helping Conrad and his dad, Dr. Berger is there for him at all times, and Dr. Berger stays calm at all times.
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Michael Sandel is a distinguished political philosopher and a professor at Harvard University. Sandel is best known for his best known for his critique of John Rawls's A Theory of Justice. While he is an acclaimed professor if government, he has also delved deeply into the ethics of biotechnology. At Harvard, Sandel has taught a course called "Ethics, Biotechnology, and the Future of Human Nature" and from 2002 to 2005 he served on the President’s Council on Bioethics (Harvard University Department of Government, 2013). In 2007, Sandel published his book, The Case Against Perfection: Ethics in the Age of Genetic Engineering, in which he explains unethical implications biotechnology has and may have in the near future regarding genetic engineering.
...g the perfect life should seem unrealistic to anyone evaluating the goal from an objective perspective; however the circumstances of the characters in the presented literary works exaggerate the expectations of everyday society. Each work focuses on portraying a flaw inherent in human nature from a different angle and ultimately, the characters’ quests for perfection demonstrate that the flaws permeating human nature are inescapable, prophesying failure for all those who seek to embody perfection.
Society longs for a perfect model to show how humanity should be. Throughout history, perfection has been looked for in gods and other-worldly beings, yet never in humans. Perhaps this is because perfection is subjective and unattainable. Each person can have their own idea of what makes someone perfect, which can make the most ideal person, imperfect. One simple flaw can be seen as imperfect. Despite that, with the advancement of technology and media, people try to become perfect through surgeries and other, more damaging, processes. In “The Birthmark” by Nathaniel Hawthorne, a scientist believes that the removal of his wife’s birthmark can make her perfect, or rather, his idea of perfect. Hawthorne uses symbolism, foreshadowing, and dark romantic ideals to say that while attempting to be perfect, you can be hurting yourself or others.
Sandel, Michael J. "The Case Against Perfection." Atlantic Monthly. April 2004: 50+. SIRS Issues Researcher. Web. 18 May. 2014.
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...ience true perfection. Since an ideal can never hold up to a reality, nothing can be truly perfect.