PRIDE

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In Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Darcy went from being the most despised to the most desired man by having rare traits; he listened to women and later was not afraid to change some of his characteristics, all while still keeping the main principles of his character. Mr. Darcy was an open and honest man. His hatred for Mrs.Benett showed how open he was about his dislike of foolish and gossipy people. Darcy despised the hypocrisy and shallowness of the wealthy class especially those similar in character to Mrs.Benett. He was blunt and loud in stating his first impression of Elizabeth, that she was not attractive. He also gave his honest opinion to Bingley that Jane did not really care for him and was socially below him. However, his honesty did not necessarily place him in a good situation. His honesty, bluntness, and interference caused Elizabeth to believe he had a lot of pride, which turned her off. As he was a changed man at the end of the book, he admitted that at one point he lacked the quality of self-control or caution, I should have judged better had I sought an introduction; but I am ill qualified to recommend myself to strangers… I certainly have not the talent, which some people possess of conversing easily with those I have never seen before. I cannot catch their tone of conversation, or appear interested in their concerns, as I often see done (150). The fact the Mr. Darcy had the characteristic of honesty, which is very hard to find in people these days, draws women to him. Not only that, he was not afraid to admit where he was wrong or what he lacked. He proved to everyone that he was a true man with a lot of courage. Even when Elizabeth was mistaken in the facts concerning him and criticized him har... ... middle of paper ... ...cquaintance (356)." Caroline then accused Elizabeth to have purposely walked to Netherfield in order to make a scene and hinted that it lessened Darcy’s view of Elizabeth “fines eyes”. He replied, “not at all, they were brightened by exercise (229).” Nothing is more impressive in the eyes of a woman then for the man she is affectionate towards, to defend her in public. Darcy's infatuation when he saw Elizabeth at his estate, his awkward social interaction, and meddling were all mildly charming because had an innocent side to him. All of the things that he did wrong didn’t really matter because he was crazy about Elizabeth and most importantly he listened to her. When Elizabeth told him he was the last person on earth she would consider marrying, he actually was sorry, wanted to take all her constructive criticism to heart, and was not afraid to change for her.

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