Having a harmonious family is a part of the American Dream. In The American Dream, written by Jim Cullen, a soldier wrote to the newspaper that he would “relate to” their “wives and children, parents and friends, what” they “have witnessed…” (Cullen, 114). Willa Cather introduces Rosicky’s family, which emphasizes on close relationships and positive community impacts in “Neighbor Rosicky”, and F. Scott Fitzgerald suggests that Charlie wants his role as a father back in “Babylon Revisited”. Even though both Cather and Fitzgerald value intimate families in integrity, they have different attitudes toward life.
Cather and Fitzgerald regard keeping a close family in integrity as a success. In their perspective, the traditional gender role-playing,
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which expects husbands to earn money, and wives to do housework and to raise children, is integral to a family. In “Neighbor Rosicky”, “Rosicky considered with puckered brows” (Cather, 680) and said that “I don’t like no old man hanging round the kitchen too much” (Cather, 680) when Doctor Burleigh recommended him to help Mary, his wife, do housework because he began to have a bad heart. Rosicky thinks cooking is feminine. His disappointment triggered by the idea that he cannot farm, a typically masculine way to serve his families, indicates the psychological importance of following gender scripts in a family. Disability of farming represents incomplete gender role-playing, and Rosicky’s death leads to an incomplete family. Cather suggests that there is a correlation between family completeness and gender role-playing through placing Rosicky’s death after he gets the heart issue. In addition, Cather advocates for a more intimate atmosphere of family. When the boys want to borrow the car on Saturday night, Rosicky said: “Polly ain’t lookin’ so good. I don’t like see nobody lookin’ sad,” (Cather, 688) and Mary jumps in and said: “… it’s good you thought about that” (Cather, 688). Even though the boys are not happy about it, they did not argue but support their father’s decision. Families are intimate in a way that put themselves in other families’ shoes. Rosicky has a supportive family and through Doctor Burleigh’s words, “you are one of the few men I know who has a family he can get some comfort out of; …, I want to see you live a few years and enjoy them,” (Cather, 680) Cather demonstrates that having a harmonious family is what people in America dream of. As for Fitzgerald, his emphasis on family integrity and intimacy reflects well through Charlie’s strong desire of getting his daughter back. After restraining alcohol consumption while becoming financially self-reliant again, Charlie wants Honoria, his daughter, back. Therefore, Charlie is not emotionally satisfied to be materially affluent, but to have a family. Moreover, the daughter’s name, Honoria, which is similar to “Honor”, implies that Charlie’s rebuilding of a family equals to rebuilding of his own honor. In addition, Charlie’s effort to “be both parents to her (Honoria) and not” to “shut any of her out of communication” (Fitzgerald, 984) emphasizes that Charlie attempts to both financially and emotionally support Honoria, and his idea of taking both mother’s and father’s roles illustrates that he thinks different genders have different roles in a family. Furthermore, Fitzgerald points out that Charlie treats Honoria as an individual rather than a kid, because he tells Honoria that “I want to get to know you” (Fitzgerald, 984). His attitude demonstrates Fitzgerald’s emphasis on family intimacy because a father cannot be intimate with his daughter if he does not respect her as a person. Even if Cather and Fitzgerald agree that successful families need integrity and intimacy, the authors have different views of how to deal with life.
Cather regards a sensitive, caring family which can bring positive influences in communities as a success. Rosicky is sensitive enough to know that Polly, a city girl, does not get used to life in a country, and is caring enough to offer the Rudolphs the car but washes dishes himself. Washing dishes does not fit in the expected role of men in families, but Rosicky does it because he cares about his families’ feelings and wants to help Polly get over a hard time. His sincerity is also why he can look into Polly’s face “with his peculiar, knowing, indulgent smile without a shadow of reproach in it” (Cather, 689). Furthermore, the Rosickys show kindness to the community. When Doctor Ed went to the Rosickys’ house for breakfast, Mary “threw back her head and spoke out as if she were announcing him to the whole prairie,” (Cather, 681) and claimed that she would never let a doctor go without serving him breakfast. As Doctor Ed reflected, “people as generous and warm-hearted and affectionate as the Rosickys never got ahead much” (Cather, 682). Moreover, Cather illustrates that the occupation of lands helps shape the Rosickys’ attitude toward life. Rosicky thinks land can support people, and his kids do not “have to do with dishonest and cruel people” (Cather, 695) in cities, so that the Rosickys pay more attention to building a friendly community and standing on their
own. Nevertheless, Fitzgerald tells another story in “Babylon Revisited”. Fitzgerald’s philosophy of living is to listen to what inside of individuals call for and to be happy. Charlie drank too much; locked Helen, his wife, outside, and spent a large amount of money for fun because he did not think about responsibility toward a family but only values his own happiness. Even when he stops heavy drinking and goes back to Paris to try to get his daughter, the reason he uses is that he is “awfully anxious to have a home” (Fitzgerald, 987) rather than he thinks he has the responsibility of raising the girl. Charlie is more self-centered compared to Rosicky, and so does Fitzgerald, who values individualism more through making Charlie almost win the right to raise Honoria back. Willa Cather and F. Scott Fitzgerald advocate intimate atmosphere of families, but they differentiate themselves by expecting families to view life in different ways. Cather proposes Jeffersonian lifestyle and deals more with the past, but Fitzgerald deals with individualism and future more. The topic of family is a component of the American Dream, but authors do not completely agree on an ideal model of family.
Taylor and Lou Ann demonstrate a symbiotic relationship between the roles and characteristics in a family. Edna Poppy and Virgie Mae replaces the missing physical and emotional traits in a stable household. The examples tie into the fact that not all families in this book match “the norms” and expectations, but are equally valued, blood or
Throughout the history of literature, a great deal of authors has tried to reveal a clear understanding of the American Dream. Whether it is possible to achieve lies all in the character the author portrays. The Great Gatsby and The Catcher in the Rye stand as prime examples of this. F. Scott Fitzgerald and J.D. Salinger, the authors of these titles, respectively, fashion flawed characters, Jay Gatsby and Holden Caulfield, with one vital desire: the longing to gain what they can’t have; acceptance and the feeling of belonging. Each retaining characteristics that shows their differences and similarities in opinion of the world around them.
Even though both stories take place in collective societies family life differs greatly. A “normal” family for “Harrison Bergeron” is two loving parents and a child raised by the offspring’s parents. While in Anthem, there is no family, parents don’t know the children and no one knows what love is. Sixty nine percent of American families with children under the age of eighteen live in families with two
The American Dream offers opportunity, equality, liberty, and social mobility to those who have lost their place, such as immigrants, African Americans, and white males with little wealth. This national ethos can supposedly be achieved through hard work, and determination with few social barriers. The Great Gatsby, written by F. Scott Fitzgerald, illustrates the unreachable American Dream that so many have stopped fighting for. While the American dream may theoretically promise equality for all, social status will either hinder or improve an individual 's chances of success. Through rhetorical strategies such as imagery, symbolism, and diction, Fitzgerald’s interpretation of the American Dream is developed.
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When the first settlers came to America many years ago, they found freedom and opportunity. With hard work and determination an average man or woman could be prosperous. This concept was not only revolutionary in theory, but has proven to be true for many successful individuals. This idea has come to be known as the American Dream. Its foundation was based on good ethics; however, with the passing of time it has become distorted. The American Dream no longer stands for equal opportunity and hard work; it involves wealth, false happiness, materialistic possessions and high social status. Individuals who have achieved the materialistic American Dream give the appearance of perfection. However, for many, their lives are not as ideal as what they seem. Issues such as sexual abuse, mental illness, alcoholism, adultery, greed and restlessness, affect the lives of even those who appear to live the American Dream. In F. Scott Fitzgerald?s novels, The Great Gatsby and Tender is the Night, the characters Daisy Buchanan and Nicole Diver give the appearance of a charmed existence, but it is in fact flawed. Their apparently perfect but actually flawed lives are shown in their childhood, their marriages, their adult lives and their past relationships.
Robert Kuttner, the author of “The Politics of Family” also believes that women should not only be the caretaker but whatever they want in a career. Robert Kuttner’s text does support Stephanie Coontz’ arguments about the issues related to traditional values and modernity in American families during the beginning of 1890 and how they have changed and need to be changed in order for families to have strong bonds with each other, especially women who need more freedom to choose their own lifestyle. During this generation people reveal everything to the society. They are open about premarital sexuality, birth control and they don’t hide anything from the society.
The American Dream is a concept that has been wielded in American Literature since its beginnings. The ‘American Dream’ ideal follows the life of an ordinary man wanting to achieve life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. The original goal of the American dream was to pursue freedom and a greater good, but throughout time the goals have shifted to accumulating wealth, high social status, etc. As such, deplorable moral and social values have evolved from a materialistic pursuit of happiness. In “Advertising the American Dream: Making Way for Modernity”, Roland Marchand describes a man that he believed to be the prime example of a 1920’s man. Marchand writes, “Not only did he flourish in the fast-paced, modern urban milieu of skyscrapers, taxicabs, and pleasure- seeking crowds, but he proclaimed himself an expert on the latest crazes in fashion, contemporary lingo, and popular pastimes.” (Marchand) This description shows material success as the model for the American Dream. In his novel The Great Gatsby, Fitzgerald reveals the characterization of his characters through the use of symbols and motifs to emphasize the corruption of the American Dream.
Many personal issues in American society are also explored through Miller’s telling of Willy Loman’s life, or rather, his road to death. These factors interact and join together, causing greater and greater troubles; his unsound economic and social statuses are both a factor and a product of his unstable family life. In a country plagued with debt and a fifty percent divorce rate, it’s obvious that the “American dream” isn’t necessarily a reality. An obsession with the “American dream” and an obsession with trying to achieve it will almost always lead to the exposure of the reality of American life—all that glitters isn’t gold. Even a seemingly perfect, nuclear family can have the biggest of issues. In some cases these issues are completely hidden, in others they are completely obvious, and yet other situations may be somewhere in between.
The American Dream is a sensitive and beloved topic in American culture. Discussing its failure and corruption needs to be done gently and morally. Fitzgerald understood this, and therefore acknowledged the need of a kind and cordial narrator within a materialistic society. Enter Nick Carraway, who on the first page lets readers know “In consequence, I’m inclined to reserve all judgments” pg 7. This statement already serves to set Nick up as a decent and honest man that can be trusted. To back up this statement Fitzgerald included a short section regarding Nick’s family and background.
Each character in the novel has their own interpretation of the ‘American Dream – the pursuit of happiness’ as they all lack happiness due to the careless nature of American society during the Jazz Age. The American Dreams seems almost non-existent to those whom haven’t already achieved it.
Since the beginning of our nation, literature has attempted to define “American Dream.” For the Puritans, living the American dream meant building God’s kingdom in this world and practicing their faith without persecution, whereas other settlers sought adventure and financial success. But within the last one hundred years the concept of the American Dream has taken on new meaning as the values and principles of cultures have changed. The modern man has sought security in the unachievable goal. Throughout the twentieth century literary periods, authors have unearthed the corrupt nature of an evolving American Dream, which has led to loss the moral values and fulfilment in the present reality.
We hear a lot about the American Dream, that anyone can achieve it, no matter one’s race, religion, or class, but is that really the truth? According to the great American author F. Scott Fitzgerald, maybe not. In perhaps one of the greatest American novels ever written, The Great Gatsby, Fitzgerald argues that for most, the American Dream is not accessible, because for the people who are not born into the richest families, it is impossible to escape their past, and it is the past that will always define them. Fitzgerald uses the relationship between two of his main characters, Jay Gatsby and Daisy Buchanan, to symbolize the pursuit of the American Dream, Gatsby as the pursuer, and Daisy
As people go throughout their life, they strive to make dreams they believe are unachievable, come true. The iconic American Dream is a symbol of success within the United States that many people aim to secure throughout their lifetime at any cost, even compromising their true identity. In Scott Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby and Lorraine Hansberry’s A Raisin In The Sun, both authors work to display how Jay Gatsby and Walter Younger work towards obtaining their dream, but fall short due to society and timing. By attempting to reinvent themselves through money, gaining power within their personal life, and their image, Jay Gatsby and Walter Younger aim to complete their American Dream to become successful in their lives.
In the play “A Raisin in the Sun” it is a common theme throughout the book that it is expressed that it is very important to have a close family when working towards achieving The American Dream because it's very hard to achieve alone. Even though all through the book they might not be on the best of terms you can tell that family is very important to three characters specifically. These characters are Mama, Ruth, and Walter. Although these characters all have different individual dreams at the end they all want what will be best for the family in the long run even though it takes them almost the whole story to realize that.