Have you ever had to move to another state? If you have move to another state, I know how you feel. You might had have friends that you were really close to, but then it turns out that you have to leave them because your parents got a new job or something else happened. Well let me tell you my experience, based on why I had to move. Around the month of August of 2008, the bell ranged and I was dismissed from class. Once, I got out of my class, I went to look for my mom’s car. When I stepped onto the car my mom said, “Jose, guess what?” “What,” I said to her. “Your dad and I decided to move to Colorado,” she said to me excitedly. “What in the world is Colorado, ma?” “Oh my God Jose, never mind about that, aren’t you excited that you’re going to be able to live with you dad?” “Yes, of course!” During …show more content…
that time, I was living in Las Vegas. I had been living in Los Angeles, California, with my grandma for a short time, until my parents brought me and my sister (Aneyka) to Las Vegas, Nevada. The time period I spent living in Las Vegas was, a full 5 or 6 years. The elementary school that I went to was called Jim Thorpe, and the middle school that Aneyka went to was called Thurman White. Also, during my occupation in Vegas, I was close to all my family. My father had been in search of work for almost two years in Arizona and in Colorado, that’s why I was joyful that I was going to be able to live with my father and mother, FULL TIME! A couple of hours later, I remember starting to cry because I was going to move to away from my family and friends. It brought critical thinking about me being in solitary from my family and my friends. I knew I had no family in Colorado because first of all, I didn’t know what it is was and second my mother stated clearly that we are going to be far away to any of our family. I cried endlessly. Even when I felled asleep, I dreamed that I was crying about the same situation with only exaggeration solution to this problem. My parents had officially set the date. The ‘Big Day’ was going to be on October of 2008. I had uncovered more details about why we had to leave Las Vegas. According to my mother, we had to move because my father had found a job in Colorado that paid well. My dad was persuading my mom to move to Colorado for many months. My mom eventually gave up defending her opinion and finally agreed with my dad. We had everything planned out, we already scheduled a date to rent a U-Haul truck and also a date for my uncle to come and drive the truck to Denver. The reason why my uncle had to specifically drive the U-Haul truck is because we don’t have a license to drive a truck. While the months past, I decide to value my time more with my family before the time came from me to leave them.
Before, I could even take note, it was already October. It was time for me to pack everything in my room, and say my final goodbyes to my family members. I was going to leave everything that meant a lot to me behind. Previously, before October, we picked up my dad from the airport so that he could help us load all of our belongings to the U-Haul truck. Lily, ‘my cousin’, (we aren’t related, she is just a very close friend who I consider family) was staying with use because she want to see her father, who was also living in Denver. My mom and dad, sister, uncle, cousin, and I all stayed at the house one last night. I remember that my sister said that all her friends gathered around my mom’s car to wave goodbye to her. Her closest friends got very emotional and they started to cry. Not only did the move affect me, it also affected my sister greatly. It was like someone had given her a punch in the stomach. By the next day, we had everything in the U-Haul truck, and it was time for me to leave my precious Vegas behind. We had now started the drive to
Denver. As we drove away from the house, I looked back at it with a very sorrowful smile. We got on I-15 and began our journey to Denver, Colorado. As we drove on the I-15 (a highway) we passed through Arizona and Utah. As we went on in our journey, I notice that it started to get hot, warm, cold, and then very cold. I remember that I was in the back of the mini-van setting down with a jacket, blanket, and a cup of hot coca from the gas station watching the movie Titanic on my mobilize disc player. At seven o’clock in the morning, we had arrived to Denver outside my uncle’s house (Lily’s father). It was for the first time every that I had saw some much snow! I felt that I was going to due to how cold the weather was. I was already adaptive to the 100 degrees weather in Vegas, for so many years. The move from Vegas to Denver affects me in a positive way and negative. The reason why this positively affected me is because I got to meet nice and gently people. Denver as also affected me negatively because I am about 1,000 miles away from the closest family I have. Sometimes I feel like a loner because I and my family are the only family we have here. So, if you are one of those families that feel alone and isolated from your family, don’t feel alone because there are families like mine’s that are out there alone with no uncles, aunts, cousins, grandmas, and grandpas.
Many folks go their whole lives without having to move. For them it is easy; they know the same people, have loads of friends, and never have to move away from their families. As with me, I was in a different situation. I grew up my entire life, all eighteen years of it, in a small town called Yorktown, Virginia. In my attempt to reach out for a better life style, my girlfriend and I decided we were going to move to Shreveport, Louisiana. Through this course of action, I realized that not two places in this country are exactly alike. I struggled with things at first, but I found some comforts of home here as well.
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When I was 7 years, I moved from my home in Australia to the other side of the planet to Dallas Texas. When I heard that I was moving, I felt a wave of despair wipe over me. As Taylor says “I have never in my own memory been outside of Kentucky” (Kingsolver 12). This was the same for me since I had never been
When I walked inside the front door something didn’t seem right. The feeling of sorrow overwhelmed the house. It was so thick I could literally feel it in the air. Everyone was motionless. They were sulking;I was befuddled. The most energetic people in the world, doing absolutely nothing. I repeatedly asked them what was wrong. After an hour or so, my dad pulled me aside. He said that my Aunt Feli had passed away last night. My mind went for a loop, I was so confused. I thought that he was joking, so I replied “You’re lying, don’t mess with me like that.” and punched his shoulder softly while I chuckled. My dad quickly started tearing up and said, “There...
It was the fall of 2010 and little did I know that my world was about to change drastically. We had moved back to Kenosha, Wisconsin in 2008 after living in Mexico, and I was starting to enjoy my life in the dairy state. My 6th Grade classes had just started at Bullen Middle School. It was right at this time when my world seemingly got flipped upside down. My parents had a family meeting and informed my siblings and me that we were moving to a small Iowa town called Orange City. I had feelings of nervousness, excitement, and sadness all mixed together.
Moving to a new state has taught me in a multitude of ways. I have learned how to embrace change, acclimate to a new city and cultures, and to look for the silver lining with that cloud. Even though I miss Colorado, I wouldn’t move back if given the chance. There will always be times where I am able to visit and times when I can simply send my old friends a text. I learned that moving is an important time in one’s life that should be looked at with a positive
In the beginning of September 2005, disappointment and excitement revealed on my face when I boarded the plane to move to the United States of America. The feeling of leaving my families, friends, school, clothes, and culture in Cameroon presented a hardship for me on this journey. Of course, I anticipated this new life because it indicated a fresh start. I envisioned it resembling life in movies, where everything appeared to be simple and life was simply excellent. All things considered, I was heading off to the United States, known for the American dream. To me it meant that everyone is given equal opportunity to prosper, achieve a family, and attain a successful job as long as they are hardworking and determined. I felt exceptionally honored and blessed to have this open door since I realized that it was not provided to everybody. Coming to America denoted my transitioning on the grounds that I deserted my previous lifestyle in Cameroon, began a new chapter in my life once again, and finally became a much grateful individual.
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“Oh my gosh! We bought a house. I am so excited. We don't have to move anymore. No more packing!”
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Every new graduated high school student wants to get out of their parents’ house. They want independence, and to feel like they are going somewhere in life. Well, that’s what I thought. Moving out was the hardest thing I had done so far. I had just graduated and was barely making any money but I thought oh well so many people move out this young I’m just going to have to work harder, maybe skip school this semester until I can get on my feet to take classes. I knew all too well that I wouldn’t be able to afford it on my own, so I asked my best friend if she wanted to live with me. Little did we both know that living with another person would be a very different experience then living with our parents. We had plenty of fights over messy rooms, the empty fridge, empty bank accounts, and annoying neighbors.
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