Narcissism In These Poems, She Said By Robert Bringhurst

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“These Poems, She Said” by Robert Bringhurst is a poem about a woman who is subjected to an ill-natured man. Throughout the entire poem the woman is explaining how she feels about her husband by supplying examples of how and why he (her husband) was such a vindictive man. However, the writer Robert Bringhurst, is of course a man so this concept can be hard to understand and follow. The poem is portraying the man as a hard-hearted man that also has characteristics of narcissism. In life, I have seen and been around a lot of men that put me in the mindset or reminds me of the husband in the poem. I see these men as cynical, not because I am a “man hater”, but because I consider myself to be a feminist. Within the poem, particularly the beginning, the woman in the poem uses multiple examples to give a summary or back story of the family’s life. “…These are the poems of a man who would murder his mother to claim the inheritance.” (Bringhurst 5-7), these few lines are so vile because killing one’s own family is one of the most heinous crimes and sins that a person can commit. …show more content…

“…These poems are as heartless as birdsong, as unmeant as elm leaves, which if they love love only the wide bluesky and the air and the idea of elm leaves.” (Bringhurst 17-21). Elm leaves are known to be beautiful and known for having good connotations because it is related to Christmas as of the modern day, but in actuality elm leaves are related to blood sacrifice and death during the ages of B.C. and A.D. In relationship to the poem, she’s saying that his love may look pure and honest, but in reality it’s worse than death because she is sacrificing herself by being with him, and like the idea of elm leaves, people may see their relationship as perfect. I look back on the past and reflect on how everyone that was on the outside looking in thought their relationship was great and how they thought he was a good man but it wasn’t

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