My Wedding Essay

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In the life, everyone sometimes has the conflicts which makes him is difficult to decide the available solution. If he recognizes the main point of the problem, he can find the way to resolve. In contrast, if he doesn’t discover the main point of the problem, he can be stressful and makes the difficulty is more bad. In my country, wedding is the significant event with the bride, the groom, and the relative sides because it brings very important meaning in the human life. From the way of holding a wedding, people can appreciate the condition and the circumstance of the family sides. Then, I am a Vietnamese so I also have the same mind as any Vietnamese. I want to hold my wedding perfectly and I want to become the beautiful bride in the best …show more content…

I am twenty- nine years old and the student at Cypress College. Then, I had a part-time job but it is enough to spend for renting a room, foods, and buying books. If I lived economically, I also saved the small amount of my wage to prepare for my wedding but my saving money isn’t enough to do everything. Thus, everything wasn’t simple as I thought. I had to save money to buy the roundtrip airfare to go back my country, opened the visa application to sponsor for my future husband, and hold the wedding, so I was really tired and boring about all of them. I went to school and had a job and they took me all of time in the week. I often had the lack of the sleeping and the irregular meals. With relaxing unscientifically, I had the stomachache. Then, there was a dangerous situation which happened at the company, I fainted by the pain for my stomach, after I had to visit my family doctor and took some sick days to restore my body. My doctor gave many advices to help me make the logic schedule for myself. Therefore, having the difficulty about the finance made me be tired and …show more content…

I also felt uncomfortable with this requirement because my religion was Buddhism. For example, it is difficult to change a religion of a person because he is nourished and follows the religion of his family when he was a child. The devotion inculcates in his mind and creates the habits in the daily life. In contrast, if I required my boyfriend gave up his religion to follow Buddhism, he would not accept the complex requirement. I wondered why my mother-in-law wanted to do this which I thought it was not available. I only went back my country for two months. Then, I had too many things to do in this time to prepare for the wedding. I had to do the marriage certificate to prove my boyfriend and me were the couple and opened the visa to sponsor my future husband, checked my health to guarantee that I didn’t have the mental disease. It took much time for me to prepare everything readily so I was tired about the things happened in the same time. Then, I thought I needed to have much time to adapt with a new religion to create the belief in my thought but I could not refuse my mother-in-law requirement because she was too devout and I didn’t want to have the conflict between her with me. Hence, my mother-in-law wanted me to participate Catholicism to hold the wedding in the church in the next year that made me feel

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