My View and Opinion on Underage Sex
Is the age of 16 the right age for sex to be legal? Many people have
their own views and beliefs and the issue is very indecisive, but is
there ever going to be an age that everyone agrees is appropriate?
This is what my speech is going to be about.
Many people have different opinions on what they think the legal age
to have sex should be. Every year more and more children are having
underage sex and this number is continuing to increase at a rapid
rate. In England, the law says it's legal and gives permission to
having sex from the age of 16 but each country has a different opinion
so the law changes around the world. It is easy to think that everyone
under the legal age is having sex, and a recent investigation revealed
that one in four women and nearly a third of men have sex before they
are 16 - the legal age of consent. A major survey shows that teenagers
who leave school early are less likely to practice safe sex and are
more likely to become pregnant.
I believe that no matter what age sex should be considered legal;
teenagers are still going to ignore it. Someone of any age will have
sex when they want to, whatever age. That's nature for you... Neither
situation is ideal, there is no ideal situation. Possibly a law should
not exist at all? I think more of an age-gap system would be better,
allowing anyone of any age to experiment and express any sexuality
they have with people their own age, yet protect them from the abuse
of older people. The age children start to become aware if sex is
gradually getting younger and younger. Sex education lessons are
starting in many primary school...
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...ack of contraception, causing
the country many more problems than the already have.
Religion can play a huge part in whether the age to consent to sex is
right or not. In the town of Lubbock in Texas, where a lot of people
take the bible literally, the church is powerful enough to ensure that
teenagers receive no education about sex, and defiantly none about
safe sex. Their teachers tell them that condoms don't work and that
sex brings diseases and that self-discipline is the only option. Could
this stop people having sex?
There are many reasons why people decide to have sex. Could be for
fun, for love, peer pressure or just because they think that it is the
thing to be doing, but is the legal age going to stop people having
sex? The answer is simply NO. Therefore I believe there should be no
age limit for sex.
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...re afraid of promiscuity”. Again, religious individuals were not given the tools to develop the kind of skills are part of being comfortable with their own sexuality. To express yourself is to get to know yourself. Moreover, here is when the key to innovation comes to aid the problem. Just by being willing to acknowledge the fact sex education, and communication helps the young generations to make better decisions is a step forward to progress.
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