My Conflict Essay

I have had very little conflicts in my life. If there was a conflict I would try to resolve the issue calmly or take myself out of the situation and move on. This particular conflict is something that I worry about every single day and wears my patience down. My mother and I have had minor conflicts as I grew up because she was a very strict parent. Recently my mother and siblings moved to Mesa, Arizona in January of this year. My mother’s credit is very bad so it was almost impossible for them to find a cheap apartment to live. She was also staying with our cousin until she got on her feet again. Our cousin is a theft, a liar, and she was very hateful to my family. She charged my mother for anything that she could and made sure my mom would pay. So my mother

At times I was two to three months behind on payments. My mom and sister would ignored my calls when they haven’t made a payment. On top of the payments my mom owed, she asked me for more money. My mother would call when their electricity got shut down, she needed gas money, etc. this was about forty dollars. Then their car broke down and she had to pay her coworkers to give her a ride to work. So I gave her another forty dollars. I told them I would not be giving them any more money because I was not getting my payments for the loan and it was causing my boyfriend and me to get into arguments. My boyfriend is twenty two and I am nineteen we should not be supporting my mother this much. I messaged my sister after I told them I would not be helping them anymore and she told me that they were sitting at Mc Donalds because their electricity ran out again and they could not find anyone to help them. She also said that they did not want to ask me for help because I would get mad. I told my sister that I do not mind helping them it just makes me mad that they do not pay me back. So I helped them again with their