My Biological Father Calvin And How His Absence Affected My Life

I would like to write about my biological father Calvin and how his absence affected my life. It affected me because he’s never been there for me since I was born. Fortunately, I have no clue why he’s never been there for me but, it has to be a specific reason. My mom always tells me not to worry about it because I have her and I understand that but, I also need a father as well.

Even though my biological father hasn’t been there for me my stepdad has. He’s been there since I was born. My mom met him before I was born. They made 5 kids, 2 boys and 2 girls. Both of my sisters name is Arshamar she is 15 years old and Yuhunika is age 17. My brothers name are Walter and Romeo their ages are 21 and 11. My brother Walter is the oldest sibling;

He’s been a good provider, a caring, and loving person. My stepdad has attended parent teachers conference meetings, went to cookouts, and activities. He gave me driving lessons, helped me with counting, and taught me how to overcome big challenges in my life. He would laugh with me dance, sing, and just have a good time. Although he’s been a good father I wish I had a relationship with my biological father.

During middle school I was a good student. I listened to my teachers, did what I had to do, and turned in homework. Second semester it got harder for me because the work was difficult. I started thinking about my dad because I needed help with my homework. My mother was always busy with other things in the household. My mom use to tell me about my father and how he was a good man but, it got to me because if he was a good man why didn’t he help raise me?

During high school I was a problem child because I was struggling with the problem of not having a biological father. I know I had my stepdad as a father figure but, I feel like me and my biological dad would have a good bond. I use to get in fights, get suspended, and get detentions. Just thinking about my dad would make me so mad and I would try and fight the world. But I was taught that it’s some things you just have to deal with in