Misconceptions About Irony

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One passage that really stuck with me was on page 10. William Deresiewicz powerfully described the compulsive overachievement of today's elite students. Deresiewicz explains two main reasons why elite students are in a constant state of stress and anguish. One is that students seem to think that they can never slow down and that they just need to keep piling on their workload. The second is their resistance to vulnerability. Elite students have a fear of being looked at as that one person who can't handle the pressure, they always want to be at the top of the pyramid. Failing isn't an option. The irony is that every student feels that they are the only ones suffering, so nobody speaks out which in turn causes everybody to suffer! “Everyone …show more content…

Elite students, even though they are clearly highly intelligent, seem to have a lack of confidence and always are doubtful. It’s interesting how we are constantly worried about what others think of us. Instead of focusing on their own needs, students are in worried about how they compare to those around them. That only results in more and more stress on everyone. I would think that in college this would be the time to learn how to be more independent. It’s a fresh start and you are apart of a whole new community. It isn't like you have to be better then everyone at your highschool, that why I find it interesting that the competitive drive is still at an all time high, yet in a negative way. Don't get me wrong, being motivated and driven is an essential quality for a student. However, we need to use those qualities in a positive way, not in a way that forces loads of pressure on you in order to be the best student in the whole university. It honestly made me quite sad how students think of themselves as a fraud and believe everyone is better than them. These students managed to get into some of the hardest schools in the country. Its very rare to do that, and in order to even be accepted you have to be a very bright individual. People need to be reminding students that they have brilliant minds. I am certain that a bit of self confidence will wash some of the stress away. On the flip side they also need to

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