Marriage, Love, Rape and Pornography from the Female Perspective

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Marriage and love, now days it is true that you'll find a couple who had fell in love and that had made it throughout. marriage is more than a couple who are dedicated its showing responsibility and shows they will be there for eachother. I can personally relate to this by me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while and we still fight a lot but we get over it and we broke but got back, i don't see myself ready yet to tackle this big factor in my life or not just yet or anytime soon, maybe once im done with school and get a job in my career when i'm more stable rather as now when say i end up with a kid at this age at nineteen and no job just working on cars for side job.From when girls are small they are told that marriage is the goal and once there married they will have to be ready to do chores and cook, clean and, take care of the household. Emma Goldman shows, that marriage is like an institution that takes through a struggle of life anf that changes the imagination and if they can maneuver that they are ideal
Furthermore, i can tell from my own personal experience that even by this date when i talk about going to Long Beach for my major i always talk about getting an apartment or so with my girlfriend and we always argue on this topic since i said i'm willing to do a compromise and help out by doing chores since i don't mind even though some can make fun of it or whatever. Everyone in now days acts Patriarchy by where one person is in charge where as would be ideal for both if made a compromise. I know alot of people who only do their part of chores and wouldn't even go get the “Dirt Groceries”, they think its “Gay” or always try to make fun of it. Men part chores are; changing furniture around, changing light bulbs, ya...

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... not just that much heard about by social media as women.
Rape and Pornography, in porn the female women are used as sex objects and shows parts of bodies for values shows even people buying women as services or goods. THey used women tied up otor y object o animals and show them getting humilated or even show them as getting raoed and them enjoying it. i remember one my close friends when i was a kid his older brother would watch porn a lot and he then thought every girl likes getting tied up or getting beat by sex just from watching these videos people made. He would assumed they did since thats what he saw when he watched all these videos all over the web over the world. The internet is one of the large site for Pornorgophy, many dont go aginst t or say anything about since they thinks its free of speech and enjoy watching it and expect it in their daily life.

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