Marriage And Love In Elizabeth Barrett Browning's Sonnet 43

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Sonnet 43 is a poem, which has a completely different sentiment from A Married State. This poem celebrates marriage and love. We can assume that Elizabeth Barrett Browning enjoyed a happy marriage unlike Romeo and Juliet, this poem celebrates a love that is not full of drama and intensity, but rather a love that is steady and enduring.
At the beginning of the poem it is almost as if the poet has been asked a question about how much she loves her husband or her lover, including a rhetorical question. She replies with ‘How do I love the? Let me count the ways’. This illustrates that she loves him in too many ways to count. There is absolutely no ‘reason’ for love, so rather than using the word ‘why’ it enforces this statement. But, in the contrary, by her saying ‘Let me count the ways’, this totally contradicts the whole idea of love having no ‘reason’. In the entire rest of the poem she is describing how much she loves.
She then goes onto use a metaphor when describing her soul as a container. As she says ‘I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach’. As the soul is immeasurable it seems as though she’s saying her love for him is endless, she uses everyday measurements for something that can not be measured. To show that her love is not reckless or short lived, she says that she loves him ‘to the level of every day’s most quiet need’. By exclaiming this, she is trying to insinuate that she loves every single bit of him, almost saying he is perfect and there is nothing about him to change. Elizabeth Barrett Browning also never uses personal ‘markers’ such as he, she, him or her. All sonnets have 14 lines in which the last two lines prior to the end have a much larger and ‘deeper’ meaning than the rest of the ...

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... intense contrast in views of love in each of the different ones. This signifies that the authors, and the people who are reading, all have different views and ideas on what love means to them. Romeo and Juliet was an ‘infatuation’, the idea of love at first sight implies that there is no time for the development of their love, so the feelings and extent of their willingness to be together may not be as strong as Elizabeth Barrett Browning and her ‘lover’. In hindsight, there is also a big difference between Sonnet 43 and A Married State, whereas Katherine Phillips totally disregards the feelings of love and practically states that love is useless and there is no reason for anyone to be involved with it.
As a conclusion, we see that every person has a different view on the idea of love; there is a mature love, a total disregard for love and also an obsessive love.

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