Love and Relationships in Sure Thing" by David Ives

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Relationships often fail. They are frail, unstable saplings when they first start out. Many couples won't make it very far. Even when they do, there seems to be never ending reasons for the pair to leave each other. Different backgrounds, tastes, and beliefs tear people apart before they get the chance to experience the sensation of love that is so desperately sought out. If two people cannot share these basic values, they may find it very difficult to continue dating. Then, the relationship is doomed already. This is proven brilliantly in the short play "Sure Thing" by David Ives. A bell is rung every time the conversation between the two characters say anything that ruins their odds of dating. The bell's constant ringing reveals how many things keep people apart.
Throughout history there is a story is repeatedly told in many ways: Two lovers from different backgrounds can't be together. The redundancy is due to the truth of how much a person's background is evaluated by others. When becoming acquainted, each person will try to gather information about each other to make assumptions...

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