Love Not Them Meaning

Not Them" that focused on how to use your love for someone as a means of discovering and appreciating your capacity to feel and express love. This article is about how loving someone can help you to heal. When we can use the love we have for someone for our own win/win benefits then we will never really suffer another heartbreak. We suffer heartbreak because we are expecting someone to love us the way we love them. Not many people have tapped into the love that is inside of them, however, that does not mean that you should become bitter and sour on relationships if a relationship did not work out to your liking. Realize that that person was not for the long term. That person came into your life to reflect the deep love that is within you.

You know the bargaining tool I mean. The one that says if you love me then you will do this or that. Or if you do this or that then I won't leave. That is conditional love and it is also manipulative and unkind. Not only is that not love, it is not a healthy and loving relationship and that kind of behaviour and mentality will never bring about any kind of deep and real intimacy in a relationship. People are not objects to be manipulated in some sick game that is masked as love. That is so far from anything that looks like love. True love comes from the heart and you feel it deep into your Soul. Love is the purest, most genuine and honest to goodness feeling that ever existed. True love is unconditional.

Opening up our heart to feeling and experiencing love will help us to create and live a life of purpose. When we can feel love then we can share that love without any expectations or any repercussions. Love is free, it does not expect payment. On the other hand living a life without love is one of the most emptiest feeling you will ever feel. You will feel as if you have no reason to live or to even exist. If we continue to look at love in unhealthy ways then we will never experience true and genuine