Love In Sue Monk Kidd's The Secret Life Of Bees

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In Sue Monk Kidd’s The Secret Life of Bees, the recurring theme is love. Throughout the whole novel Lily is looking for a mother figure. When she ends up at the Boatwright house she begins to learn more things about her deceased mother, when she is telling August about her mother and her father, T. Ray, she states that she is unlovable. Later on in the book when T. Ray is driving away after deciding to leave Lily at the Boatwright house she turns towards August and the Daughters of Mary on the porch and says, “I remember the sight of them standing there waiting. All these women, all this love, waiting.” (299). During this Lily realizes that she, is in fact loveable and that so many people are there to act as a mother for

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