Loss Of A Loved One

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Dealing with the loss of a loved one is a deeply personal struggle. When you’re grieving, decisions about the monument, gravestone or cemetery may seem like they come on pretty quickly. However, it is important to take time and consider where your dearest family member or friend would like his or her final resting place to be. Here are a few options to contemplate while you are processing these complex emotions so you can make the best decision for your loved one with a clear mind.
Cemetery Types
Where you place the monument of your loved one will say a lot about the life of that special person. Typically, options for cemeteries range from religious, to public to even green cemeteries that focus on eco-friendliness. Public, district, and municipal cemeteries are often difficult to get into due to large populations and limited space. If you are looking for a religious option, it would be best to start with a local church and branch out to those of the same denomination within a reasonable distance. Ultimately, it is important to consider what the deepest personal values were of your loved one to make a decision that aligns with their views and determine a location that is best for them. …show more content…

Many people wish for as many family members and friends to visit their loved one as much as possible. Therefore selecting a cemetery that is within one hour of your loved one’s hometown may be the best option. It is also important to consider the traffic and pollution in the surrounding area, to ensure that it is a place that is both easily accessible and maintains good environmental health for visiting family and

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