Keys Of Happiness: The Key Of The Key To Happiness

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The Keys to Happiness Every couple wants to know the secret to a long lasting relationship. They want the keys to keeping the love in the relationship growing each day. Wondering how do they satisfy their partner physically, mentally and spiritually? I plan to shed some light and discuss areas in your relationship that you can work on to achieve that long lasting happiness. To pave the way to a long lasting relationship you will need to work and continue to build these four key areas. First, you will need to have that open line of communication between you and your partner. Second, build a trusting relationship, there is nothing more detrimental to a relationship than telling of lies and unfaithfulness, next, be spontaneous; keep that element …show more content…

If this is not resolved, it can grow quickly into the feeling suspicion. The feeling of something is wrong, but you do not have enough proof to conclude. Then you start to feel anxiety, the feeling of being uncomfortable, nervous and uneasy around your partner. This turns quickly into fear, you are afraid to share your feelings and concerns with your partner, communication in the relationship has broken down. You now have the feeling of protecting yourself and feelings, so you go into self-protection. You build a wall around you to combat the fear of being vulnerable. The biggest reason these feelings or stages occurs is due to a partner being …show more content…

Sex provides a break from our everyday lives and allows us to encounter a level of closeness, vulnerability and sharing with our spouses. Sex is an important factor in a happy marriage. Intimacy and romance can make the marriage so worthwhile. Majority of marriages becomes mediocre and boring; it is not because of the lack of love for each other but because it is lacking romance. Codek stated,” its romantic love that allows you to say emphatically “I’m in love with you”, instead of merely, “I love you”. (14). It is up to you and your partner to turn the relationship into a love affair.
Married couples do not engage in sexual activity because of reasons of, “I am too tired” or I am not in the mood”. These feelings occur because the sex drives is not in line with each other. Couples do not know how to create romance in a relationship. Romance expresses your love for each other; it brings the relationship to life. Without romance, love is but an empty thought. A good sex life is like the roots that anchor a tree. To keep that vital energy going (and the sap rising!), you need to continually provide something new and

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